Who is responsible for Anti-gay Prejudices?

It seemed prudent to put together an essay on the concept of prejudice & how the GAY community is both causation & victim due to the spokespeople it chooses to represent "who is gay". To help me illustrate my point: I'll tell you that the African American in the photo to the left earns over $200,000 per year! Can you pick out the African-American from the image on the left? Really? If you said, "the woman", you'd be absolutely wrong. The picture was taken in Haiti and the man is a doctor who was born in South Africa & has his US Citizenship. He's AFRICAN-AMERICAN in the truest, lawful, sense of the term. The woman is Haitian. But how many people instantly associate dark skin with the term "African"? That's a form of prejudice; --& it is promoted by mass media without a single thought or concern for the truth.

"Is he gay?" How many times in your life have you heard that question asked? Excuse my vernacular - but what the PHUCK does that question mean?

And: why was "BrokeBack mountain" called a "gay" movie? Both main characters have wives & kids. Isn't it a "BIsexual" movie about 2 guys with wives - who also loved each other & had a fetish for arse-sex? Since this is so obvious; - why is is called a "gay themed" movie? Does the "arse-sex" make it "gay"? WAKE THE PHUCK UP PEOPLE!

For those who have spent any real time on this website, the terms "STRAIGHT, BI & GAY" are words used by people who can't think, won't think, or are simply unaware of the fact that sexual attraction is a CONTINUUM; -- & the minority of people are at the end points of either extreme in orientation.
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Locate the gay men in the "pride parade" composite picture on the right? You find the task a little bit easier? Are these NOT the stereotype'd images many people visualize when the term "gay" comes up?

In the image at the page top, it's clearly obvious that it is the mass-media that is primarily responsible for people associating "dark" with "African" when the fact is that there are millions of white Africans and many of those have US citizenship (making them TRUE African Americans). But the media promotes a giant prejudice tying color with geography and that prejudice is fueled by the small IQ's of "political correctness".

The prejudices associated with the images to the RIGHT are likewise media driven -- but with one key exception: It is the GAY COMMUNITY ITSELF that drives the message that GAY-MEN are gender bending oddities. Other images that come into the public mind when the topic is gay-men are like these (Left/Below):

Such images - created by the gay-porn industry itself give a shocking view into the minds of gay-porn erotica writers. This is not some fringe publication. It is an ad that arrived uninvited - in an e-mail box. It is a site on the Internet that will sell streaming video, etc.

Men - who are by nature sexual & many who have bad habits like watching M/F porn-fantasies -- see advertising like that on the left to represent a real threat. How wide is the dividing line between fantasy & reality? It is a fact that men who are raped by other men have an extremely low rate of reporting the act. What man wants to be at a party & accidentally drink too much around a group of men who extol the title of "gay" in light of material like that on the left (& knowing what male sex drive is like). How many parents would approve of their daughters passing out drunk around a bunch of drunk college Frat boys? Do you understand the subconscious threat?

The image of the gay-pride event above is quite surreal. Anyone watching has to ask themselves: "Is this what the gay-male community is all about?" The same question rings true of the image on the left. Critics may argue that there are lots of "nice gay people". Perhaps. But if you're locked in a cage with a bunch of snakes -- how many need to be venomous to make you prejudge them all?

Of course -- the primary act that the gay-male community holds up as their "defining sex" is actually a fetish involving a non-genital organ: AnalSex. Seen by civilized society for thousands of years as a crime against nature -- the majority of people find the act repulsive and many societies have labeled it criminal.

Despite the fact that research has shown that this act is the key for the explosive spread of sexually transmitted diseases (1000%-2000% more frequently than all other forms of sexual contact combined), the gay male community has so defined itself (defined itself) in terms of this fetish that the media now routinely substitutes the term "gay-sex" when they mean "anal-sex". Although practiced among mixed gender couples, -- it previously represented a mere minority of sexual contacts -- but is slowly gaining social acceptance because of the message for "tolerance" pushed by the gay community regarding "their sex act". This gradual acceptance of what was once considered a form of moral decadence parallels (interestingly enough) the explosive spread of sexually transmitted diseases into Africa & Asia -- populations that often lack antibiotics & other medicines -because of poverty. The result is a self-inflicted death toll unparalleled in human history - with an origin that can be clearly linked to the unrepentant "gay male" community & the explosion of pornography depicting "anal-sex" as an acceptable, pleasurable act.

Because of human nature being what it is; -- Once people adopt a form of behavior as acceptable to their own consciences, they seldom change or modify it -- despite information that paints it in a negative light. Instead, people tend to justify their behavior - rationalizing it. This is why drunks keep drinking & drug abusers keep abusing, - long after they've destroyed their own lives & negatively impacted all around them. This is why the smoker keeps smoking despite the mountain of evidence as to where it leads & who it effects. Once people's consciences have been hardened, our prison statistics show that they rarely change. That fact is true of all behaviors -- even those not statutorily labeled as "crimes" -- even when they perhaps should be.

The gay male community extols anal-sex as if the human body was built to accommodate the act (when it clearly is not). The gay male community marginalize the devastating effects of anal-sex as a conduit for pathogenesis. Instead, they claim that many sexual activities can spread disease. Such a claim is like saying that, "Because many people get hit by lightning every year; --Wearing a long metal pole on your head while playing golf during an electrical storm is of no real consequence..."! Consider this: If anal-sex was not acceptable in the gay community -- then STD's - like AIDS - that ravage it would have never made a statistical dent! In other words: It is the very act of anal-sex that made the "gay-plagues" happen. But rather than weigh the EVIDENCE & embrace reason; -- The gay male community will continue to navigate the same course & criticize anyone who draws distinction as being "homophobic" (as if arse-sex & gender bending have anything to do with same gender affection)! Unlike any other group I can think of: The prejudices & stereotypes that society has of the gay community are actively reinforced by the gay community itself!

To Quote Gay Radio Personality Steve Yuhas
(who is a conservative & highly critical of the gay community's antics): ''

As your streets are closed off this summer to make way for men in dresses and dykes on bikes along with the men in thongs contorting themselves into odd poses on floats – keep in mind that gays are doing this on their own and painting their own community with the stereotypes that they are demanding so many pretend are just slander by religious people and those “out of the mainstream.” Remind them that you saw it in their parade, at their rally and during the time when they were in the spotlight in a festival that they created and generated for themselves and the world to see. That won’t shut them up or stop them from complaining, but it may give them cause to think a little bit about the consequences of their behavior.

What an interesting world we live in – gays keep the stereotypes of gayness going and normal people get disciplined for endorsing them. Typically parades and protests are meant to change minds: marches against abortion are used to stop abortion, marches against taxes are used to stop the increase of taxes, but only in the world of fags, dykes and queers are marches used to put on display the stereotypes of being gay demanding legislation against exactly the same thing: Political Science 101 – if you want someone to stop calling you a fag – stop calling yourself one first.

“Watch my parade, endorse the political positions on my signs, but forget what I’m actually doing or what I look like because if you don’t – you’re an intolerant bigot.” Only gays could get away with that and luckily, since they’ve been doing the same thing for 30 years without success in their cause, most people in the real world understand the hypocrisy and ignore it. ''

- Steve Yuhas is a GAY columnist and radio talk show host on KOGO AM 600 based in San Diego. He may be reached at steve@steveyuhas.com or www.steveyuhas.com

"Love is the mortal enemy of the sociopath and empathy is the window love views the world thru." -Veh
Love does not work ill toward its neighbor. Therefore, love always acts on knowledge that actions may need balance. Love cares if hurt is being done - even inadvertently. Sociopaths may mislead & skew an education; -- but love will take steps to correct the course. It is this reason why men who have considered themselves "gay" for a while often embrace g0y principles. What g0y-converts will tell you is usually the same message with some subtle differences within the subjective life of the teller: "GAY" is a movement that has been shipwrecked by sociopaths and those naive enough to accept the lies of the sociopath without challenging them.
Since the beginning of time, civil societies have labeled AnalSex as a tort - even criminal; - Yet the sociopaths of pornography have spun the lie that AnalSex is merely another form of "sexual expression.". In the "gay revolution", the sociopathic peddlers of porn & smut now insist that "GaySex" is on par with "AnalSex". Dissent of their death-message is met with accusations of "hate speech" & "homophobia". Unfortunately for the sociopaths: G0YS are immune to such accusations and our existence exposes the lies and liars for what & who they are. After all - you can't yell "Homophobic!" at [two men arm in arm] who just happen to be denouncing AnalSex!

And the result? For the 1st time since the "Sexual Revolution", men who experience Same Gender Attractions (SGA) have a giant option called "g0y" set before them! G0YS are the "moral high-road" for both health & perception reasons. We provide the context in which men can reframe their entire thought process regarding masculinity without needing to accept the gender-confounding lies of the sociopathic "gay male community's" self-anointed spokespeople.
For example: G0YS know that it is a FACT that +60% of all men experience some form of Same Gender Attraction. Since +60% is a MAJORITY, g0ys can quietly presume that it is the statistical NORM for men to love men & that those people who expend the energy to "come out" are wasting their time - believing a lie that they're some sort of "minority". G0YS know that men have no more need to "come out" then they have need to announce that they possess a penis! G0YS are subversive. We often pull others aside & quietly let them know that +60% is NOT a "MINORITY". G0YS can undo a life of shame & denial with a single statement of truth (because the truth can set people free).

So, to the teenage guy who is beginning to realize that he has feelings for his buddies; -- the FACT is that they probably feel the same things back at ya! They're not afraid of loving their buddies... They're afraid of being associated with a bunch of gAys who have embraced the faux-paas of a woman by adopting an active or passive interest in analsex as a "gay thing". Denounce the buttphuckers loudly; -- & your buddies will relax into your gentleness when directed toward them.

G0YS reject "gAy" because the "gAy" sociopathic spokespeople cannot regulate their very own behaviors! G0YS reject gAy because it is dominated by pleasure-seeking, disease-spreading, immoral arse-phucks. Our position is based on over 4000 years of legal precedent. Theirs???

These facts simply acknowledged for what they ARE -- because there was a social need & moral imperative for the formation of a group of men who were affectionate toward other men -- but completely repulsed by the imagery, stereotypes & stigmas promoted (-not only by mass media - but by the gay-male community itself). To us, the "gay spectre" is so reprehensible & gilded in filth -- that something needed to be created as an alternative for the majority of men who genuinely love & respect masculinity (& reject acts that deride it). Simultaneously - recently developed apologetics needed to be made available to same-gender-attracted people who have been devastated by the widespread misreading of the Hebrew & Christian Scriptures. As it turns out - those Scriptures NEVER condemned same-sex intimacy! The SPECIFIC CONDEMNATION was against anal-sex all along! Because of these giant issues affecting untold numbers of people ... G0YS.org was born.

"GAY" is a term that society sees as part of a "package deal". It may have started out as a term that meant "same gender affection", but it has morphed into a thing that carries lots of social baggage in the wearing of it. Each person determines for themselves if they want to don that term. Since "g0ys" was coined -- many men who once applied the term "gay" to themselves (for lack of a better word) -- now say "g0y"; -- & as important: They have a resource they can point anyone to in order to understand the differences at: www.g0ys.org (spelled w. a zer0). Never in history has such power been bestowed upon a single term so quickly & globally; -- A term that impacts many more men then the "gay community" could ever hope to influence.