Consider this: Many of the guys who click into this page have been or currently are contemplating self termination. Before you take any action that leads to irreversible consequences, - spend some time here.
The most common feeling is that there is no way out of a situation that seems to have no light of goodness at the end of the tunnel. Know what I'm saying? It's almost a universal feeling. But it's only a feeling. And feelings are often not good representatives of reality. You may feel hopeless when the fact is that you're mere minutes, hours or days away from a life altering series of unpredictable good events. Feelings always change; - It is the nature of existence. This is especially true when new knowledge opens you to previously unforeseen options. That's what this website is about.
The most common set of toxic thoughts that generate bad feelings can usually be summed up like this: "I love guys and lot's of people in my immediate peer group say that's seriously messed up; -& since I can't stop loving guys ... when the news gets out -it will eventually destroy my life and all of the friendships/relationships I currently have." -OR- "Someone has found out that I like guys and once that news gets around - I'll be destroyed by it."
However, if you are like most guys, -- you absolutely do NOT relate to the "Pride-Parade'esque" presentation that the "GAY" male community makes of itself. You don't relate to gender-bending nor transexual mannerisms and you're absolutely NOT interested in analsex (probably repulsed by the notion of it). Right?
How closely did I nail it?
And while you may not realize it yet; - MOST guys deal with similar feelings. What you're going to soon find out if you spend some quality time on this site is the complete mind-job society via the many, many fools that provide real-time lying-commentary has pulled on you (& virtually ALL of the population)!
Now might be a good time to read the frame to the left...
Many men can't initially wrap their minds around the fact that: Most men love men/too (to some degree) and are concealing it. But when you finally realize that fact - it's a massive relief because you'll also realize that you're not part of some fringe minority nor do you need to associate yourself with the bizarre culture that calls itself "GAY" and has a strange preoccupation with lumping together abbreviations I.E: GLIBTQetc in order to amass more numbers to their collective causes -seemingly bent on morphing genders while denying the natural affects of androgens on the human body. The reality is that about +60% of the male population has had an experience (or wants to have) with another guy that much resembles "Brokeback without the butt-sex".
If you're a "Sam" who likes "Steve" but doesn't want to be a "Susan" NOR pretend that "Steve" is a "Susan" -- then you're statistically "normal" (whether or not you like "Susan"). That is where most guys are at, -statistically. So, be at peace! G0YS are simply "normal" guys who happen to love guys/too and we represent the MAJORITY (surprise!) of the male population. Say "NORMAL".
Please read the G0YS website before you make any rash decisions regarding your continued existence. You will be sooo glad that you did & sooo pissed at the enormity & number of lies you've been told about what being a guy is supposed to "feel" like. Like guys but don't relate to "GAYS"? We understand completely!
You're depressed because you've been abused...
Most of the guys who discover
G0YS have not, technically been "outed" (in the sense that generally, nobody except you knows
that you like guys/too). However - regardless of that fact - you have
likely been exposed daily for years to the sentiments of others who insist how "awful" it is to be a person who
likes their own gender in the intimate sense.
Despite what appears to be
growing "tolerance", - most places still harbor groups of people who
express (now often subdued) extreme malevolence toward same gender attracted
people. And you are in earshot of comments made by those people and the large
numbers of people around them that express the same sentiment when the topic
arises. This is especially true in places where "religious fundamentalists"
constitute a large section of the population. When those people also happen to
constitute family-members - the abuse escalates by magnitudes. However - the
amazing fact is that most people have no idea that their negative comments
impact YOU because you have erected such good survival camouflage (& in many
cases - this is matter of survival itself) that nobody has a clue. To make
matters worse - you've seen the "gays" long enough to know that
you do NOT
associate your attitudes with a culture that wants to casually stir in
gender-bending, AnalSex & x-dressing with sexuality. Congrats for having an IQ
high enough to see the distinctions and the moral fortitude to reject the mantra
of fucktards who want you to join with them simply because you happen to share a
common trait. However - with sanity being a scarce commodity - this
constant noise of religio-hate on one side and the whining of mancunts on the
other - has likely done a mind job on you psychologically. Lots of guys
have many of the mental injuries that appear in soldiers who suffer PTSD. And
this mental-pain will often find a way to ooze out in ways that are
generally problem-causing: Depression, chemical-abuse, unhealthy sexual
relationships (often engaged in while intoxicated), guilt, anxiety, fits of
rage, feelings of hopeless, feelings of universal-rejection, resentment,
confusion, anger at God, suicidal-ideations, etc. Think I've been
You have been abused by liars & those who repeat the lies. YOU are NOT the
So - stick around. Things can get so much better once you get your perspective! The best revenge is to live well!
Yeah, G0YS know what guys are up to &
not talking about:
It's Totally Normal: Although most men don't admit to
having done it.
My IQ is in the genius range. I began to figure lots of sh!t out early on. That's a good thing because I know of some people in similar circumstances who didn't figure stuff out -&- as a result of despair they couldn't handle, they exited life premeditatedly prematurely. Like lots of guys, - I decided (for lots of good reasons) not to disclose my sexuality. Primarily - the time & place of my youth would have made doing so dangerous. Even though times have changed - there are still plenty of places where disclosure could be perilous. However, -IF- you have the knowledge of the g0ys between your ears, - you can still have tremendously fulfilling friendships & find other guys who feel like yourself - discretely. The key to discovery is simply to be a good friend - a great friend, even. You may even be instrumental in saving someone else's life - especially if you can share the g0ys' movement with them. Furthermore, lots of guys who are secretly uptight about their own sexuality become much more relaxed with it after they discover the g0ys movement. It's because g0ys destroys so many lies that come from all directions.
So, gain a sense of inner peace, and don't risk your health or future by listening to the "anything goes" nonsense of long-dead, old diseased gay-geezers or the similar echoes of lowbrow fools in the GLITQetc thing who have learned nothing from the pile of dead bodies millions deep & decades old who destroyed themselves with sexually transmitted diseases in the mindless pursuit of hedonism! And don't accept a message that discredits the validity of your feelings for other guys. There is a place of masculine balance, peace, safety, security, love, physical-intimacy & self-esteem that exists between normal men. The g0ys movement gives the knowledge. All you need to do is share it discretely with other guys. They'll thank you in the most awesome ways!
RIP: Harley D