depressed because you've been deceived...
Many of the guys who click into this page have been or currently are contemplating self termination. Consider this:
The most common feeling is that there is no way out of a situation that seems to have no light of goodness at the end of the tunnel. Know what I'm saying? It's almost a universal feeling.
The most common set of toxic thoughts that generate bad feeling can usually be summed up like this: "I like guys and that's seriously messed up, and since I can't stop liking guys - this weakness will eventually destroy my life and all of the friendships/relationships I currently have." -OR- "Someone has found out that I like guys and once that news gets around - I'll be destroyed by it."
How close did I nail it?
And, if you are like most guys, -- you absolutely do NOT relate to the "Pride-Parade'esque" presentation that the "GAY" male community makes of itself. You don't relate to gender-bending nor transexual mannerisms and you're absolutely NOT interested in analsex (probably repulsed by the notion of it). Right?
You're a psychologically NORMAL guy!
What you're going to soon find out if you spend some quality time on this site is the complete mind-job society via the many, many fools that provide real-time lying-commentary has pulled on you (& virtually ALL of the population)!
Now might be a good time to read the frame to the left...
Many men can't initially wrap their minds around the fact that: Most men love men/too (to some degree) and are concealing it. But when you finally realize that fact - it's a massive relief because you'll also realize that you're not part of some fringe minority nor do you need to associate yourself with the bizarre culture that calls itself "GAY" and has a strange preoccupation with lumping together abbreviations I.E: GLIBTQ in order to amass more numbers to their collective causes -seemingly bent on morphing genders while denying the natural affects of androgens on the human body. The reality is that about +33% of the male population has had an experience with another guy that much resembles "Brokeback without the butt-sex". And there's almost the same number who would have liked to! Roll those facts over in your head for a while.
If you're a "Sam" who likes "Steve" but doesn't want to be a "Susan" NOR pretend that "Steve" is a "Susan" -- then you're statistically "normal" (whether or not you like "Susan"). That is where most guys are at, -statistically. So, be at peace! G0YS are simply "normal" guys who happen to love guys/too. Say "NORMAL".
Please read the G0YS website before you make any rash decisions regarding your continued existence. You will be sooo glad that you did & sooo pissed at the enormity & number of lies you've been told about what being a guy is supposed to "feel" like. Like guys but don't relate to "GAYS"? We understand completely!
You're depressed because you've been abused...
Most of the guys who discover
G0YS have not been "outed" -in the sense that generally, nobody except you knows
that you like guys/too. However - regardless of that fact - you have
likely been pelted daily for years about how "awful" it is to be a person who
likes their own gender in the intimate sense. Despite what appears to be
growing "tolerance", - most places still harbor extreme groups of people who
express (now often subdued) extreme malevolence toward same gender attracted
people. And you are in earshot of comments made by those people and the large
numbers of people around them that express the same sentiment when the topic
arises. This is especially true in places where "religious fundamentalists"
constitute a large section of the population. When those people also happen to
constitute family-members - the abuse escalates by magnitudes. However - the
amazing fact is that most people have no idea that their negative comments
impact YOU because you have erected such good survival camouflage (& in many
cases - this is matter of survival itself) that nobody has a clue. To make
matters worse - you've seen the "gays" long enough to know that you do NOT
associate your attitudes with a culture that wants to casually stir in
gender-bending, AnalSex & x-dressing with sexuality. Congrats for having an IQ
high enough to see the distinctions and the moral fortitude to reject the mantra
of fucktards who want you to join with them simply because you happen to share a
common trait. However - with sanity being a scarce commodity - this
constant noise of religio-hate on one side and the whining of mancunts on the
other - has likely done a mind job on you psychologically. Lots of guys
have many of the mental injuries that appear in soldiers who suffer PTSD. And
this mental-pain will often find a way to ooze out of you in ways that are
generally problem-causing: Depression, chemical-abuse, unhealthy sexual
relationships (often engaged in while intoxicated), guilt, anxiety, fits of
rage, feelings of hopeless, feelings of universal-rejection, resentment,
confusion, anger at God, suicidal-ideations, etc. Think I've been
You have been abused by liars & those who repeat the lies. YOU are NOT the
So - stick around. Things can get so much better once you get your perspective! The best revenge is to live well!