This document was created for those parents/guardians who wish to
completely alienate their children from them & sever forever any lines of
genuine communication. Some of you are already very successful at having
done this - so this essay is written to implant your memory with the knowledge
prior to your entry into hell - for: "It is better for a person to have a
millstone tied to their neck & be cast into the sea than to offend any of
these little ones." - Yeshua
Religious & non-religious parents can use this as a reference -- as the
former actually act like the latter in most cases regarding this subject.
See: Bubba-Baptist knows John 3:16 and that Gawd hates Fags. Bubba-bigot
merely knows the latter.
However, the religious parent will have the
additional ammo of being able to assert that "Gawd says so" - although the
same assertion has also been widely reported from mere bigots as well.
In any case, the abusive parent/guardian has concealed from the child (&
often even themselves) that the Law of God was written to promote life & it
condemns actions that tend to harm others (& isn't condemning of benign actions nor mere
attractions). And take note that the 2-laws of Christ in the New
Testament reiterate the simple precept that "love works no ill". To
alienate your children who have same gender affections, -those simple
principles must be discarded & a new "godspell" taught.
"Ex-gay" as an example of a popular false gospel...
The alienation technique is simple to master. Merely speak often &
openly about your disgust & complete disaffection for anyone who loves their
own gender. The earlier you start, the better. That way, when your
child hits puberty & recognizes same-sex attractions within himself (+63%
of all people) -- the self-loathing, mixed with terror of rejection of
parents, peers & God will set the child on a path of lying, self denial,
frustration & depression at not being able to change his physiological
responses; -- & eventually cumulate in concealed bitterness towards you and
most importantly: a drastically skewed perception of God.
Considering that the VAST MAJORITY of people with Same Gender Affections
are ambisexual (Bi), it is very unlikely that you will know for sure if the
technique has been effective on your child as s/he plays it "straight".
However, there are some hints. If your child seems very hostile towards others
who are perceived "gay", etc... then it is likely that the response is a
defense mechanism to smokescreen their own feelings & to divert suspicions.
This has been clinically proven. Extreme homophobia is a high
probability signal that the person exhibiting the "hatred" is concealing the
exact same feelings they claim to loathe. How about you?
Remember, as a parent - the only thing you must require that your child
provide for you is 'toasted ice'. Simply ask what has been proven
impossible by both science & sound theology, - & be sure to slap a
"JEZUS" bumper
sticker on the philosophy. You'll not only alienate your child with this
approach -- but others who are in the proximity. Using the services of
one of the many religious groups & words like "ABOMINATION!"
are quite instrumental.
I grew up with Bubba Bigot Baptist as "dad". He was in civil service
for most of his professional life. Extremely popular with many peers, he
was seen by many as a "good 'ol boy". He hated all the right groups for
his day: Blacks, Jews, Fags & even Italians. He spoke of this hatred
often (except while in the occasional church service). When I was 12,
-maybe a little before, I began to recognize same gender attractions. At
the time, there wasn't much material available on the subject & what I
discretely found
tended to indicate that "many people who experience these 'feelings' grow out
of them.", -so I waited with anticipation over the next few years, but they
only intensified. Fortunately, I was smart enough to be sure that I
played the "str8" role model so that "Dad the Destroyer" wouldn't figure out
that I was one of "them".
However, his message was clear about his feelings towards "fags".
I
was disturbed by the imagery he spoke of as being "gay", - drag, anal-sex,
child molesting, etc.
I didn't want to do any of those things to any of
the guys I liked. Instead, I wanted to be friends - close friends & be a
great friend back. I discovered that wrestling could get gentle if I
combined it with massage & I discovered that a lot of my buddies would ask me
for massages in private once they knew that I was "ok" with male closeness.
Over time, I found out that a number of them wanted the same kind of affection
I did, but most were ambisexual (bi) -- so they had mixed-gender relationships
too (that covered the fact that they were willing to get-off with a guy they
respected & had intimacy with). No anal, no drag -nor any of the other
stigmas we'd heard about were ever part of our friendships. Effeminate
guys were a turn-off, generally. We knew that we were "different" from
"gays", but the mutual attraction gave the stereotypes enough of a
nexus to keep us
all in fear about being to open with our private closeness. We watched
what happened to guys who were openly "gay": Scary &
generally, unappealing!
It was 2+ decades before "rumors" (untrue
rumors) reached the
ears
of "Fag-hating dad" about me. Age had mellowed his temper some, & it was
obvious in sideline conversations that he'd inject a comment here & there
about having known "homosexuals" throughout his life & he'd say it in a
neutral manner as a "matter of fact" statement. I chose never to breach
the subject further. Why? Well, it seemed obvious: He'd spent his entire life
making his true feelings known. The fact that he discovered later on
that he'd been sticking his foot in his mouth for 20+ years didn't change the fact
that his true feelings had been well established previously. Being the
case, my mindset was simple: 'Why open a subject for discussion when you know
the other person is going to lie about his feelings in order to try to bridge
some relationship gap?'. Furthermore, his earlier tirades about "gay
lifestyles" had nothing to do with me or my friends. Therefore, his
veiled neutrality about "homosexuals" (a word I still can't stomach) was actually
him offering an "olive branch" to a person other than who I was. I
didn't like disease-spreading arse-pokers, so why would I offer conversation
to someone I knew perceived men who loved men - as being part of a disgusting group
of analists? So I let the comments blow by me as if I didn't notice them
- while thinking: "That's a mindset a few decades too late.", &
I always continued the
conversation as if I was clueless that a branch had been subtly offered.
See, living as a same-gender-attracted guy in a home where the
predisposition to love your buddies is treated as being on moral par with
child-molesting, disgusting fetishes & other reprehensible acts that
hurt people -- is like living in a POW camp where your secrets must be kept
from the jailers (who expect you to be swayed by their propaganda) - lest you be destroyed by them after learning you
are not truly a believer in their 2-dimensional messages.
It's not on par with having a taste in clothes, music or peers that
mildly alienates many teens from their parents. It's having an innate
predisposition that many a teen believes puts their very life in danger & in
their own home! Stop, & read that last sentence a few times until you realize
what it means to a 12/13 year old. Then add on the provable false
rhetoric pushed by Bubba Bigot Baptist's Brether'n. Now add in the peer
pressure that results from Bubba Bigot Baptist's Bretherin's Brainwashed Bigot
Boyscouts. And for g0ys - all the prejudice against us is based on
numerous, gigantic, disgusting lies. And "dad" wants to make peace after 20+ years
-by mouthing some liberal sounding krap that now supposedly reverses his
perceptions of men (whom his previously spoken prejudices have connected with forms of
immorality that I detest)? No thanks! Take it to your grave, dad (which is
precisely where he took it)! This gap can't be bridged by duct-tape.
It requires a little more investment & much more time to repair. Fix it
in the past! I like my ice toasted, dad.
So, there you have it: The strategy, & some proof
that it works. You too now have the ability to permanently alienate your
children because you prefer to believe lies & prejudice about
same-gender-attractions, -rather than embrace the truth about human affection
& the fact that it can express itself in many ways without compromising the
health & wellbeing of those who express it. Love works no ill; -but a
false witness is an abomination to God.
- http://g0ys.org
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