Yes, We're "Pissed":

For many g0ys, our whole adult lives have been stigmatized from both the Left & Right.  Finding the "Analist" message from the left completely incompatible with our natures, -- we lacked the ability or desire to "come out" as part of the "gAy" community.  However, pressing hard on the social "right" are the Rabid-Fundamentalists who preach the message that all same-sex activity is baaaaad (praise the lawd). 

So, the political left have an "anything goes" message which society has picked up on as being "Men into men are into anal sex".  The religious right -- echoing that stereotype loudly, adds that ALL same sex activity is an ABOMINABLE sin -- despite the fact that their own Bibles have shining examples of same-sex relationships cast in a very positive light (David & Jonathan being the pinnacle -- especially to those versed on covenants & estate laws).  Both sides are ignorant of fundamental law including but not limited to legal process & civil procedure.  Jesus observed of the so-called (& self professed) legal experts of his day that since they claimed to understand, -- their guilt remained.  The incompetent claiming competence damns them!  Blind leaders of the blind -- who claim to see!

What this all added up to for g0ys was a life with almost nowhere to turn for support -- until now. is the first movement to address BOTH the issue of sexuality & Judeo-Christian theology on a single platform.  The feedback has been tremendous & mostly positive.  Some of the correspondence has been posted on our MaleMail page, but some has been waaayyyy too sensitive to post.  The number of g0ys in religious groups is almost surreal.  We've had e-mails from people who have been "upstanding" congregation members for years -- all the while "knowing" that their feelings made them unacceptable to their group if anyone was to ever "find out".  Although the advice of is to leave such abusive (yes, it's abuse) groups & knock the dirt off your shoes on the way out; -- The fact is that there are MILLIONS of g0ys stuck in that terrible situation because all they know about same-sex relationships is called "gAy" & the lies/stigmas around "it".

And what is developing, is a pattern.  Men are writing in who have all the symptoms of PTSD.  Furthermore, many of these guys have dealt with the feelings for so long that other symptoms have integrated themselves into their personalities.  Among them are Social Anxiety Disorder, & a feeling of being hyper vigilant when among strange crowds.  The current treatments often deal with coming-out issues & dealing with internalized "homo-negativity".  However, g0ys don't embrace 'gAy' culture for the reasons well covered on this website.  To us, the suggestion to "come out as gay" is on par with a suggestion to "abandon our basic ethos".  No thanks.  However, "Coming out as G0Y", is now an option -- and one that is beginning to gather some attention...mostly positive.  If you're a mental health professional, you may consider this option for people who it's appropriate for.  You may also want to consider that the patients you have with all kinds of depression-related symptoms may be g0y, & in no hurry to reveal that to you.  "Homo-negativity" is not as much an issue as "ANAL-negativity" is; -- And because society overwhelmingly views "gAy" = "AnalSex" ... g0ys need to know they're not alone and there is a system of belief compatible with their basic emotional structure.

Pissed for the pissing away:

One of the loudest responses this website gets is the remorse from men who have pissed their lives away trying to "do the right thing" so not to offend families, friends & God.  On the other hand are the stories of lives destroyed because a guy was honest in how he felt & was promptly labeled "gAy"; -- to be abruptly "labeled" as "one of  those" - who have no moral restraint in regard to their sexual proclivities.  Many teenagers find themselves on the street with nowhere to turn (Paul wrote that in the end days men would lack natural affection.  This disregard for the welfare of dependants in the name of 'Gawd' is a prime example of those who are already damned, -  proving it to the children.).  It astonished me to see the number of religion(s) all clamoring for "Jesus rights" who have no concept of him!  What is ironic is that he predicted it would come to pass!  In the West, -- among the wealthiest nations on earth ... Jesus words ring true: "It is easier for a camel to go through the needle gate than for a rich man to inherit the kingdom of God!"  What is "rich"?  The average world income is less than $300USD annually.  Earn more than that?  Do you sleep on a bed?  Carry insurance?  If so, - you're likely "rich"!  This is the end condition of the so-called "church":    "You say, "I am rich. I have become wealthy. I don't need anything." Yet you don't realize that you are miserable, pitiful, poor, blind, and naked.  Therefore, I advise you to buy from me gold purified in fire so that you may be rich, white clothes to wear so that you may keep the shame of your nakedness from showing, and ointment to put on your eyes so that you may see.  I correct and discipline those whom I love, so be serious and repent!  Look! I am standing at the door and knocking. If anyone listens to my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he will eat with me.  To the one who conquers I will give a place to sit with me on my throne, just as I have conquered and have sat down with my Father on his throne.  'Let the person who has an ear listen to what the Spirit says to the churches.'"  - Rev 3

A person only needs take a look at the work of groups like Covenant House to realize that among the so-called  "gAy" kids thrown out onto the street by morally bankrupt parents, -- many of these kids are 'g0ys'.  When these 'g0ys', without resources seek help, who is there for them but the Butt Phuck Tyranny with open arms & condoms in hand.  Got peer pressure?  From evil parents via evil "Pastors" to the likes of "Planned Barrenhood" - the premier leftist "reproductive health"<sic> groups with deep ties to the Butt Phuck Tyranny; -- All of the forces of evil stand against people (often mere teenagers) who's only "sin" is who they tend to emotionally bond with.  Worship of Satan in your community?  It starts at the local "congregation" under the guise of "righteousness"! 
The Apostle John wrote: '

Whoever says, "I love God," but hates his brother is a liar. The one who does not love the brother whom he has seen cannot love a God whom he has not seen.  And this is the commandment that we have from him: the person who loves God must also love his brother.'

But not the Religious Reich! They have their beliefs down to a science!  They proclaim the mantra: "Hate the sin but love the sinner" while they run around ignorant of the commandments' use, & labeling those around them as "sinners" whom they promptly treat as they would someone they hate (all while chanting their mantra)!  Groups like "Focus on the Family", are SATANIC!  Surprise!

Let Nineveh BURN:

It has been observed by many that the media is on auto pilot and the lie called "sexuality" has been broadcast so much that the population is now convinced that the earth is indeed, -  flat.  Whether from the political right or left -- the buffet consists of the same lie, merely repackaged.  Jesus said: "Narrow is the path that leads to righteousness & few there be that find it.".  Knowing that, if you find yourself on a path busy with traffic & carefree company of others: You're headed toward your doom!  This path is so narrow that often you feel like you're the only one on it -- even if you are in a "church" somewhere.  What is important is that you renew your mind & escape the modern "pop-psychology" that penetrates society & the church with a stench of lies unparalleled in human history.  Many g0ys have written to this site & said (in astonishment) that they were told their whole lives the Scriptures condemned them in their sexuality; But finding that belief to be untrue (evidenced by a study of those same Scriptures), -- they have renewed their faith. is glad to have helped.  Please continue the study for yourself & know for yourself!  Warn those around you & reference this website often.  Because it may not be this year, or the next ... but the trend toward destruction seems obvious: Nineveh is going to burn.  Before it does, -- let's warn them of it's pending fate.  It's the same fate as Sodom; -- And the irony is: who the "Sodomites" REALLY are...