Consider this: Many of the guys who click into this page have been or currently are contemplating self termination.  Before you take any action that leads to irreversible consequences, - spend some time here.

The most common feeling is that there is no way out of a situation that seems to have no light of goodness at the end of the tunnel. Know what I'm saying?  It's almost a universal feeling. But it's only a feeling. And feelings are often not good representatives of reality (especially in this matter).  You may feel hopeless when the fact is that you're mere minutes, hours or mere days away from a life altering series of unpredictable good events.  Feelings always change; - It is the nature of existence. This is especially true when new knowledge opens you up to previously unforeseen options.  That's what this website is about.

"This organization and your profile SAVED ME. I thought I was entirely alone in the world (not being able to tell anyone how I felt but knowing the way other buds felt about me and them not being able to express it). I thought I was gAy (didn't really know what the buds were) and hated that idea. I realize now I'm not gAy. I'm g0y! Thanks again buddy! What a great website...like I said...you saved me dude!...Literally!" - MP

"I finally feel confident enough to say that I know there are men that value my thoughts and I wish to give back to honor those G0YS that helped me; who SAVED my life 7 years ago (tears falling now) after 28 years of being LIED to by gay men that I placed all my affection and trust in. Do you know how powerful that is?" - Matt G

"...And, upon discovering a movement led by writers who seem to have a cogent and clear biblical analysis of what is right and wrong on the matter, have found freedom and liberation before God" - Adam O

The most common set of toxic thoughts that generate bad feelings can usually be summed up like this: "I love guys and lot's of people in my immediate peer group say that's seriously messed up; -& since I can't stop loving guys ... when the news gets out -it will eventually destroy my life and all of the friendships/relationships I currently have." -OR- "Someone has found out that I like guys and once that news gets around - I'll be destroyed by it."

However, if you are like most guys, -- you absolutely do NOT relate to the "Pride-Parade'esque" presentation that the "GAY" male community makes of itself.  You don't relate to gender-bending nor transexual mannerisms and you're absolutely NOT interested in analsex (probably repulsed by the notion of it). Right?

How closely did I nail it?
Surprise: You're a psychologically NORMAL guy!
(Especially if you happen to think that fit men are attractive...TRUE! Read on!)

And while you may not realize it yet; - MOST guys deal with similar feelings. What you're going to soon find out if you spend some quality time on this site is the complete mind-job society via the many, many fools that provide real-time lying-commentary has pulled on you (& virtually ALL of the population)! 

Now might be a good time to read the frame to the left...

Many men can't initially wrap their minds around the fact that: Most men love men/too (to some degree) and are concealing it. But when you finally realize that fact - it's a massive relief because you'll also realize that you're not part of some fringe minority nor do you need to associate yourself with the bizarre culture that calls itself "GAY" and has a strange preoccupation with lumping together abbreviations I.E: GLIBTQetc in order to amass more numbers to their collective causes -seemingly bent on morphing genders while denying the natural affects of androgens on the human body.  The reality is that about +60% of the male population has had an experience (or wants to have) with another guy that much resembles "Brokeback without the butt-sex".

If you're a "Tom" who likes "Tony" but doesn't want to be a "Tina" NOR pretend that "Tony" is a "Tina" -- then you're statistically "normal" (whether or not you like "Tina" too). That is where most guys are at, -statistically. So, be at peace! G0YS are simply "normal" guys who happen to love guys/too and we represent the MAJORITY (surprise!) of the male population. Say "NORMAL".

Please read the G0YS website before you make any rash decisions regarding your continued existence.  You will be sooo glad that you did & sooo pissed at the enormity & number of lies you've been told about what being a guy is supposed to "feel" like.  Like guys but don't relate to "GAYS"? We understand completely! 

You're depressed because you've been abused...
(You need to grasp how serious this actually is & realize that you should not let your abusers prevail!)

Most of the guys who discover G0YS have not, technically been "outed" (in the sense that generally, nobody except you knows that you like guys/too).  However - regardless of that fact - you have likely been exposed daily for years to the negative sentiments of others who insist how "awful" it is to be a person who likes their own gender (in the intimate sense).  Despite what appears to be growing "tolerance", - most places still harbor groups of people who express (now often subdued) extreme malevolence toward same gender attracted people. And you are likely in earshot of comments made by those people and the large numbers of people around them that express the same sentiment when the topic arises. This is especially true in places where "religious fundamentalists" or so-called "conservatives" constitute a large section of the population. When those people also happen to constitute family-members - the abuse escalates by magnitudes. However - the amazing fact is that most people have no idea that their negative comments impact YOU because you have erected such good survival camouflage (& in many cases - this is matter of survival itself) that nobody has a clue.  To make matters worse - you've seen the "gays" long enough to know that you do NOT associate your attitudes with a culture that wants to casually stir in gender-bending, AnalSex & x-dressing with sexuality. Congrats for having an IQ high enough to see the distinctions and the moral fortitude to reject the mantra of fucktards who want you to join with them simply because you happen to share a common attraction.  However - with sanity being a scarce commodity - this constant noise of religio-hate on one side and the whining of mancunts on the other - has likely done a mind job on you psychologically.  Lots of guys have many of the mental injuries that appear in soldiers who suffer PTSD. And this mental-pain will often find a way to ooze out in ways that are generally problem-causing: Depression, chemical-abuse, unhealthy sexual relationships (often engaged in while intoxicated), guilt, anxiety, fits of rage, feelings of hopeless, feelings of universal-rejection, resentment, confusion, misplaced anger at God, suicidal-ideations,  etc.  I can relate! As I've said: This abuse is extreme - so extreme that in other contexts the abuser/s could face criminal prosecution!    
Understanding the G0YS perspective can rapidly undo the guilt and confusion; -& taking the time to check out the theological arguments/essays will rapidly prove to you that +98% of religious "leaders" are not worthy of their positions - lacking critical thinking skills & devoid of the morality & ambition to study their own Scriptural original-language-source-documents themselves.  Some of the material in the "God-hates" section of this website was penned by a PhD who uses the Scriptures & completely discredits & disgraces those who promote an agenda attempting to fault same-gender intimacy. When you're done taking the information on this site in, - you'll realize that those who have inflicted the abuse at you in the "name of God", are - by the standards set within their own Scriptural documents - worthy of same punishment they've been calling out for others. I'm not exaggerating.  That's how serious this abuse you've suffered is when done by clerics invoking divine references (in Judeo-Christian circles).  I make this point strongly because "God" is cited so often as the "authority" on this matter & why religious zealots want to condemn people who love their own genders/too.  And when most men see that the TRANSLATIONS of the Scriptures have been perverted (provably MIStranslated) to create a giant lie - then the #1 reason causing the related low self-esteem vanishes! You've been abused. And if you've been "outed" - if people know your "secret" - then the abuse has probably been magnitudes worse - especially if you're g0y (thus have an ethical center) and don't feel unity with the overall "gay" community and their mantras of genderfuck & their irrational thinking patterns.  It's time that you STOP accepting the LIE accusing YOU of being the "problem"!

You have been abused by liars & those who repeat the lies. YOU are NOT the "PROBLEM".
G0YS is the movement for ethical men who love masculinity -but- don't relate to "Spectre of Gay culture".

So - stick around. Things can get so much better once you get your perspective! The best revenge is to live well! 

Yeah, G0YS know what guys are up to (but aren't talking about): It's Totally Normal: Although most men don't admit(/yet) to loving guys /too; They shun the "GAY" label - for many completely valid reasons; - G0YS don't Ass--Fuck. Such acts are emasculating & perilous! So, why would G0YS want to be associated with "GAYS" - "GAYS": The culture that frames itself w. ! And men who are G0Y are constantly defending themselves against such stereotypes!

TRUE PRIDE  can only exist when respect, love & empathy are priority in a friend-ship! This perspective always leads to a mind-set that seeks the good of the other man & takes steps to assure that acts would never hurt him. Other-wise, "PRIDE" is a hollow slogan shouted by FOOLS!

There is a place of masculine balance, peace, safety, security, love, physical-intimacy & self-esteem that exists between normal men.  The g0ys movement gives the knowledge. All you need to do is share it discretely with other guys.  They'll thank you in the most awesome ways! You may even be instrumental in saving someone else's life - especially if you can share the g0ys' movement with them.  Furthermore, lots of guys who are secretly uptight about their own sexuality become much more relaxed with it after they discover the g0ys movement.  It's because g0ys destroys so many lies that come from all directions.
My IQ is in the genius range & I'm a polymath. I began to figure lots of sh!t out early on. That's a good thing because I know of some people in similar circumstances who didn't figure stuff out  -&- as a result of despair they couldn't handle, they exited life premeditatedly prematurely. Like lots of guys, - I decided (for lots of good reasons) not to disclose my sexuality. Primarily - the time & place of my youth would have made doing so dangerous. Even though times have changed - there are still plenty of places where disclosure could be perilous. However, -IF- you have the knowledge of the g0ys between your ears, - you can still have tremendously fulfilling friendships & find other guys who feel like yourself - discretely.  The key to discovery is simply to be a good friend - a great friend, even.  The reason this is true is because most guys like guys /too! It's a "guy-thing", not a "gay-thing"! G0YS are simply the messengers! See, the g0ys philosophy is thousands of years old. Not new. Very old.

So, gain a sense of inner peace, and don't risk your health or future by listening to the "anything goes" nonsense of long-dead, old diseased gay-geezers nor the similar echoes of lowbrow religious fools in the GLITQetc thing who have learned nothing from the pile of dead bodies millions deep & decades old who destroyed themselves with sexually transmitted diseases in the mindless pursuit of hedonism! And don't accept a message that discredits the validity of your feelings for other guys.