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A few years ago, I was watching a special on TV about sharks. In this documentary, they were testing a shark suit. The suit didn't interest me much. What did, - was an fascinating dynamic that was set up between the diver (fearless of the sharks because he was in a protective suit), & the sharks themselves. The diver was on the bottom & in his arms was a fully grown shark. The divers hands were clad in the shark suit which was metal 'chain-links" and as he held the shark (a species known to be very aggressive), he was using his hands to lightly scratch all over it's body. Visualize this: A man holding a shark -- bigger than he was, - known to be dangerous as he cuddled up with it like a big dog -- gently caressing & scratching it all over. After 30 seconds or so, the diver simply pointed the shark in the direction he wanted it to go & gave it a push in that direction & away it would go. Then, another shark would swim over to him & he'd repeat the process with that one! As the camera pulled away, it revealed an entire school of "man eaters" who were taking turns getting body rubs from this diver! I am not making this up ... you may have seen to documentary yourself as it is shown on one of the major nature networks. Now what the documentary didn't show was the posturing the diver had to set up to get his "shark circle" going. There is no doubt it took some preparation beforehand & the documentary only showed the end result. In this article, I'm going to point out a strategy to figure out if that STR8-Guy is really a "G0Y" in deep cover. You'll need a "shark suit" too. It's called "str8-acting mannerisms, interwoven with patience" & friendship.

It rang true:
Watching the diver with the sharks struck several chords of truth. Let me point out some parallels:
First, the sharks are unaware that they're "ferocious looking". They're use to seeing sharks. They don't realize how intimidating they appear. They're not trying to be intimidating; -- rather they're just being themselves. Likewise, that dude who makes your heart beat fast, you palms sweat & your mouth dry -- has no idea he has that effect on you. He's not trying to be intimidating; -- rather he's just being himself. Like the sharks, he lives inside his body & does not see himself like others see him. Being kind to the sharks such as scratching their bellies gives them a sense of trust. To do that though, the diver needs to get over the intimidation factor. He uses the shark suit to do that. You only need knowledge ... this knowledge, & the desire to make friends. You see, that "STRAIGHT" guy who makes your hormones flow has all the basic needs & insecurities that are common to man. Unlike a shark, there are many ways to "scratch his belly" -- & the majority being verbal in nature. You need to look past his surface & realize that the projection of his body is NOT who he "is". He is an "ego", a mind within that body and like I've said ... he does not realize the intensity of his appearance because it does not affect HIM that way. He may be aware that he is a good look'n dude, but he doesn't know exactly how that affects others or even if everybody thinks he's good look'n.
If he works out, he's sending a double message: 1) He wants to feel more confident. 2) He wants YOU to make him feel better about himself.
Truth #1: You know that you want people to like you. Realize that this is a UNIVERSAL NEED. That "stud" has all the needs, hang-ups & insecurities that are common to man. Present yourself as confident & friendly & he'll be slightly intimidated by you.
NO FEAR. You have what he needs -- in the power of your speech. Assuming you're in a position to strike up a conversation (a gym is a great place), take note of a part of his body or some feature about him you like (maybe his car) -- (use your mind). Then, point-blank: make a compliment & ask a question about whatever it is you found impressive at the same time. This is a double pronged ego-stroke. The compliment is actually your approval of him in his eyes. The question is actually a statement telling him that you feel his opinion is important. Hello Mr. Shark-Dude: I was noticing you have really great shark skin. How do you keep it so barnacle free? - OR - Hey bro: I noticed you have great definition in you chest. Do you have a special routine for that or is it just natural? Be sincere. Don't use flattery ... you gotta find something you like - before you open your mouth about it. NO FEAR ... be friendly. Remember, he doesn't know his appearance puts butterflies in your gut. Despite his looks, he's a guy on the inside who very much wants to be loved & respected, And he's never sure how the next guy is gonna see him. This is why your well thought complimenting inquiry will be like the first time a shark feels the hand of the suited diver (Hey...that felt really good. Think I'll hang around...)

Build TRUST:
Trust takes time to build. Rather than see the dude as a short term conquest (which would be very un-g0y of you), -- see him as a long term friendship that you would like to progress to extreme intimacy. The great thing about this posturing is that you can build just as many of these friendships at a time as you want. Now you're "swimming with the sharks"!

Some G0Y friends of mine took a couple of years to mature to 'nakedness'. Other's occurred faster. We're all great friends still & none of them know about the other's relationship with me. That's part of being 'g0y' -- as opposed to "gAy". Total discretion is the rule. It's not homophobic. We just don't want to be seen as arse-phuckers, which IS the social stereotype about "gay" -- make no mistake.
G0YS are never "out", & if someone calls you 'gay', - get ready to have an altercation (because you're N0T gAy). I have a friend who spent some time in prison. Anyone who calls him "gay", "fag" or "bitch" is asking to visit the emergency room because he KNOWS what those labels imply. When used as a slur, g0ys know those terms mean a person who is morally loose, & an abuser of themselves &/ other men too. The "gay" community thinks little of those terms. Such ignorance & apathy is extremely self-deprecating. Making it clear that you take offense to being labeled with those terms will also give a sense of reassurance to any "STRAIGHT guy" you happen to be culturing a relationship with. You don't have to be mean, cruel or insulting -- simply FIRM that "Where you're from, the kind of language that implies men treating men as women (or being treated as such) is an offensive remark that often provokes an appropriate response.". Said matter-of-factly in an attitude of reconciliation usually makes your point & often generates an apology from whoever made the remark. You may also want to tag on a comment like: "I don't have problems with those sorts & I don't intend to start by being labeled one.". Again, no need to overreact; -- Keep the tone as friendly as you can without seeming a push-over. Men like their friends to have 'a pair' ... or in other words: Men feel good as the acceptable company of other men who have a sense of self esteem. Think about it. If you don't tolerate foolishness, but they are your friends, then they get the message that you don't consider them fools. Psychology. But I digress...
Once you have established a conversation, there are some basics you need to keep in mind. First, the other dudes opinion matters to you. Don't debate; ... Ask questions. Also realize that you may need to see the guy several times before you begin to feel more at ease with the other. Remember, to him, he's trying to make a good impression too & there will be some tension ... it's natural. Be friendly & appreciative of him. If you have friends nearby, introduce him to them & make some comment that will establish him as an important person in their minds & that he will know that you respect him. Over time, you can invite him to hang out, party & chill. Show interest in him. That's not difficult...because most people are interesting..

Real-Life Example:
I have a friend named Rob who races power boats. I met him at the beach while doing a volleyball game with some friends. Rob is a total 'hottie' with a reputation for bedding the babes (one of my friends at the beach that day knew him too). We got talking about boats, his boat ... races ... & I asked to see any pictures or videos of his races that he had. See how I kept it 'all about him'? Over an hour, we ended up breaking the ice & at the days end, we were as good as friends as a single day could make. Over the next few months, we went boating, biking & clubbing together. I took some great video of him & his boat in a few races & burned several to DVD. During the same time period, we worked out together some & got comfortable with 'pats on the back' & being close doing the things we did. One of the things I did was make sure that any reasonable opportunity to touch him in a natural way was taken advantage of.
Going to the beach, I'd sunscreen him & opportunity opened itself up about the 2nd week I knew him.

Rob could barefoot around all day, but something about the arches on his feet caused shoes to hurt him if he was in them for a long time. The first time I became aware of this was shortly after showing up at his place after he'd got off work. He'd taken a shower & was laying on the couch. I asked him if he was planning on going out & he said he would, but his feet were hurting too much to dance it up. I asked him some questions & had him stand up and take a few steps on the carpet so I could watch his movement. After he laid back on the sofa, I sat down at his feet & picking each foot up & casually putting pressure on various places I asked him where the pain was concentrated. After playing 20 questions, I suggested that he see a podiatrist I knew & be fitted for an insert (orthodic). While I made my observations & suggestions, I casually shifted into a deep pressure, foot massage. It's important that you know a few things. First off, my goal from the first time about hearing about his sore feet was tactical: To posture our conversation so I could massage them <link>.
Secondly: When massaged, the feet cause the brain to release a very large amount of neurochemicals called endorphins. In the concentration released, they act like drugs. This effect isn't to be underestimated. The presence of serotonin & oxytocin combine & send a powerful -- nonverbal message strong enough to even convince sharks to let a creature of another species hold them, & rub all over their body (for example). It's a powerful message that says "you can trust me to make you feel better & not harm you". Of course, touch causes the release of these chemicals - something as simple as a handshake starts the reaction. Serotonin is what makes the event feel "good" & oxytocin is what makes connects the event you. Oxytocin binds to centers of the brain that connect your presence to feelings of acceptance & trust. It literally adds another dimension to your friendship & acts like a chemical anchor. Of course -- because these are feelings generated & non verbal announcements, the effect on your buddy becomes integrated into his personality to where he sees you & he instantly feels a "connection". Building the oxytocin bridge can happen quickly -- but building depth can take years. This is why the best g0y relationships begin as friendships & go deeper over time. Done with self control & respect over time -- the other guy will love you on a level that also makes the friendship very deep, intimate & usually -- these emotions are aired privately because of the nakedness of self disclosure. Of course, to start the journey -- remember that the feet release the gateway drugs for seducing - even thugs!
See, in the human brain, the centers for sexual pleasure are located very near the centers that light up with a foot massage. That's right, giving a good foot rubdown is second only to rubb'n on the guys nads! It may look half-a-body away, but in the head -- feet, foreskin & foreplay are side by side! The chemical messengers will spread so fast that the result will literally be like if you drugged him. Inhibitions will drop; & once you have given his feet a good rubb'n, you'll be able to expand the coverage of the massage because he will have gotten 'the chemical message'. Once at this level, your relationship can become deeper than his other male-bonding relationships because you share the intimacy of touch & the unspoken message of acceptance it delivers. It is the most powerful form of intimate communication. Keep in mind that wrestling & rough-housing make great precursors to massage -- as you both get "tired" from sparring - just begin rubb'n on him. Stay relaxed & casual & chances are - he will too.

EDITORIAL CONTRIBUTION: About the 3rd month into being friends, Rob & I were planning on going to a club on Saturday night. While sitting at his kitchen table, before we left, - Rob reached over & took my hand in his, -- & with no more than (3) beers in him said "I really love ya man". I told him the feeling was mutual. Now, get this: The alcohol had definitely lowered his inhibitions, but the closeness of our friendship that had evolved over the last few months sent a loud message to him that, at least to me, he was a very important person & totally accepted (At that point in our friendship, it was common to wrestle with each other & the guy who got pinned usually ended up getting tickled into hysterics. I thought nothing of grabbing him by the legs as he'd walk by & pull him onto the sofa where I'd light wrestle him until the massage I applied at the same time subdued his thrashing.)
When we came back that evening from the club, & while standing in the living room, Rob stepped up to me, - wrapped both arms around me & let me know again that he loved me (This -- coming out of a self-professed, "STR8", lady-killing, studmuffin). If you're not ready for that, it might freak you out ... so I'm telling you, BE READY FOR IT. G0YS are all around us. My response to Rob was to hug him back & step in closer so we were hugging pec2pec, balls2balls. He was drunk. I was stone sober. I decided to stand there cuddl'n & see where he wanted this to go. Rob had his head buried in my neck & every 10-15 seconds, he'd reposition his hands on my back & hug me tight. See, Rob didn't know how to articulate what he was feeling. Rob was "STR8", but he was standing in his living room with a guy in his embrace (me). Crotch to crotch with him, I could feel him get hard pretty fast. I told him, "You're drunk dude ... lemme get you to your bedroom,", - & so we walked to his bedroom arm in arm with him leaning against me. He sat on the side of the bed looking like he wanted to say something, but couldn't find the words (The "STR8 guy" who wants to get nekkid with you will not usually be able to say what he's feeling because it sounds "gAy"). I just smiled & helped him get his shoes/socks off, then shirt. Pulling back the bed covers, I shut the light off & told him to lay back, as I stripped his pants off. He was freeball'n & had a semi. Read the signs.
I asked if he wanted me to stay & keep an eye on things (on account of him being a 'hopeless lush ;-).

He said yeah, so I stripped to the raw & slid into bed beside him & pulled the covers over us. I put my arm around him -- under his torso & pulled him up against me. Rob told me he never had another friend like me & just wanted to be with me.
You have to listen. The phrase "be with" means "cuddly, close, intimate, & more...". The relationship with another G0Y is sometimes like a dance. Because of the sensitive nature of being intimate with another dude, the courtship is taken in steps & the language is never used to suggest it's anything like a male/female relationship. My response to Rob was to tell him that I really enjoyed being with him too & pulling him tighter in my hug. Rob put his head on my chest & wrapped an arm & a leg over/around me. We hugged like that for about 30 seconds & then I moved the hand that was already under him down to hip & lifted him so he was on top of me, -- & then & helped him shift around so we were pec2pec, rod2rod. This position is a favorite among G0YS because you have full body contact with the other dude & get to feel all of his responses & him yours. The focus isn't on your cock, but on the responses of the other dude (breathing, sounds, heart-beat & the occasional twitches & throbs emitted by his cock next to yours). The most erotic & powerful sexual responses are those that happen without you trying to make them happen. After all, your dick knows what to do & the two of them up against each other soon engage in their own form of communication that kinds takes both guys along for the ride. Slow & sensual; --- the total opposite of what is portrayed in most gAy porn where one guys uses the arse of the other like a man-sized masturbation tool (how shallow is that). G0YS know that the orgasm that happens while rod2rod / face2face (called PhROT or FROT) often happens without anyone having to "try". All that skin on skin acts like a large sex organ ... like your whole body becomes a sensory extension of your penis; -- & all the hairs on the 2 dudes' bodies scratch, tickle & feedback on each other. This is why PhROT generated orgasms are so intense. It's a body-wide sensation, with the focus at site of the spasming penis; -- Incredibly bonding. The unspoken message to each guy from the other is: "YOU get me off; - not just your cock". You don't get more honest & loving with another dude than to lose control & cumm like a stallion around him. It's the most primal compliment I can imagine....saying love, trust & acceptance all at the same time (especially if you watch the dudes expression as he loses his nutt). Rob's expression takes on an incredibly sexy mix that looks like surprise, intensity & joy all combined - with an arched-neck, clenched-tooth-smile & tenseness in his brow -- that relaxes into bliss & relief as he nears the end of his volley with each little post orgasmic cock-twitch echoing on his face as a little terseness is his relaxing expression (yummm-buddy).

Once he was on top of me, his cuddling turned into slow face rubbing (shadow on shadow) & then gentle kisses. We held hands with out-stretched arms & rubbed feet & legs -- all very slowly, gently. Every time he'd have a pre-orgasm-twitch it would stiffen his body for a moment until finally he just stiffened, groaned & emptied his load together with mine as his hard-body writhed slowly in time w. my own. We relaxed ('melted' sounds right) into each other & fell asleep still cuddling. Consider it. No condoms, no lube, no worry about disease (no penetration). All natural, nothing artificial - not even the stimulation preceding orgasm needed 'staging'. Furthermore, each guy never relinquished being a guy -- (totally equal). No tops. No bottoms. Just honest male2male, naval2naval passion so intense that it didn't need any help at all to force a set of dicks to erupt a gusher of jism. That's raw, male, luv'n romance at it's climax ... It's pure 'G0Y'.
The next day, I got up an hour before Rob & made us lunch. He was up at noon & claimed not to remember the previous night. I wasn't gonna push; & told him it was a blast & hoped it would happen again. "Again" took 7 days; & the next time we talked about the experience the day after. He was uneasy at first -- all concerned about rumors of "fagdom". I explained the difference between G0Y vs. gAy; & how he didn't need to worry that he might be turning into a "queer". It took some time & showed him a few sites on the Internet like this one; -- & even showed him the relationship in the Bible between King David & Prince Jonathan (a couple of Hebrew G0YS - [yes, I see the linguistic oxymoron, but nonetheless, the relationship's nature is obvious when you don't let someone else read it to you])! Basically, I had to educate the prejudices of society out of Rob as I do with anyone who'll listen. See, he still loves to bed women -- [although he's been in a LTR with one for quite a while now]. I moved & don't see him as much any more, but when we get together we have a tendency to 'cuddle till we cumm'. We treat each other as extended family w. lots of love, & if Rob ever needed a hand, I'd put my life on hold to help him. We respect each other's lives & don't make demands on 'who does what with who'. G0Y relationships are different than M/F relationships & we don't try to confuse the (2) -- as does the 'gAy' community. The love is no less intense, -- but it's just different - & we can accept that. Would I be willing to pairbond with Rob? Sure ... but his life is currently too complex in a society that doesn't know the first thing about human intimacy other than 2 extreme endpoints on an ill-fitting scale called "Straight & Gay". I respect his choices, & I'm patient. He knows he's loved & I know he loves me too. Love in spite of problems & imperfections? What could be stronger than that!

In Summary:
Lots of G0YS have friends that we wish were more intimate. If it's gonna happen, you need to show the initiative & be patient as the relationship deepens. The fact is, that most guys are g0ys (& I say that meaning that they copulate with women & know a few guys they'd like to cuddle-till-they-cumm with), but not all g0ys are attracted to women at all. Levels of attraction to other guys varies greatly depending on a number of dimensions. There are some factors that come into play with this. One is the "close buddy factor". Another can be the "emotional support" factor. The next is the "trust" factor and finally the last is the inhibition factor (that all the others influence). Substances like alcohol can also influence inhibitions which is the reason many guys drink when they go out. That door swings both ways<pun>; -& lots of guys do thing when they're intoxicated that they have terrible regrets about throughout their lives. The ideal relationships are built on sobriety - but if your buddy chooses to get hammered & gets friendlier than usual; - I'd suggest you fast-track the process & be the best friend he could have when he sobers up (taking the time to explain what "g0y" is all about & why it's not a "gAy" thing). Whether sober or sloshed, -every one of my g0y relationships started out as friendship with a so-called "str8" guy! This has led me to believe that "Kinsey-0" men are a true minority & statistical analysis continues to lean toward that conclusion.

Having said that, let me highlight the primary INHIBITION FACTOR. Most men -- see the very act of PENETRATION as being the role of a Woman. This is because a woman is DESIGNED to be penetrated because of her genital-physiology. Therefore, these same men see *anyone* who would engage in penetrating a man to be a potential THREAT to a man's sense of masculinity (I.E: That 'fag' wants to phuck me up the arse -- & hence use me sexually as one would a woman). Remove the threat & what fills in the gap is TRUST.

Concisely removing the "threat"
The fastest, most efficient way to establish the nature of your sexual AVERSIONS is to take early opportunities to sleight any talk of arse-sex. When in conversation, the news - wherever you hear it, swing negative on the subject in a way that your peers know that the very thought of it you find reprehensible. You don't have to tie the issue with orientation - because social stereotypes about the "gay male community" will do that for you. In other words: When society at large hears you bash AnalSex as a "disgusting, sick-o, perverse, etc." act; -It will presume that you are not gAy. (Which is fine - being a g0y). Other comments that have a lot of power are along the lines of, "I love my friends too, but I don't want to play in anyone's ass...". Or, "There's something wrong with a group of people who's main focus in their relationships is to get into somebody's arsehole; - Disgusting!". You won't need to say "gay-him" or "homo-anyone". Society's biases (fueled by the gay-male community itself) will presume the connection between hating anal-fetish & not being "gAy". Meanwhile -- guys who are nearby will immediately know that you're absolutely not a "closet arse-pounder". This assurance is a big-deal when you find yourself in the position of cuddling with (& rubb'n on) another dude. He'll relax knowing you're not scoping his arse ... & if he's g0y, he'll probably get turned on faster being in the warm presence of a guy with a clearly defined, masculine moral center. Meanwhile, gay guys who are scoping you will take your comments personally - even though you haven't mentioned "orientation" at all!
As trust forms the basis of relationships - inhibitions fall. As inhibitions fall, intimacy rises. The handshake evolves to a hug that evolves to wrestling, which evolves to mutual respect & admiration of the other -- & the disarming of false pride (someone wins a wrestling match, & someone loses, -- but both guys stay friends). Engaging in physical contact like friendly wrestling opens possibilities for more intimacy -- usually sustained contact such as massage.
Contact, especially massage, triggers endorphin release such as serotonin & oxytocin. These natural drugs imprint on the brain of the guy & escalate the trust factor. Obviously, the person everyone trusts the most, is themselves. What level of intimacy does a person have with themselves at the core of their being? Sexual (Masturbation is someone of the same gender you intimately trust being very intimate with you because you know they'd never hurt you & it is gonna feel good). I can't tell you the number of times a friendship with a so-called 'str8 dude' escalated the trust factor & got to the point where the guy became receptive to genital stimulation. Why? Because through relationship building, closeness progressed to the point where massage progressed to removal of shirt, pants & socks, etc. Once massage becomes a regular dimension of your friendship, even the other dude will realize that you're both extremely close, & he will usually take the steps to pull the blinds & lock the door before climbing into the sack w. you for a good rub down. He knows you're "not gay", but he also knows other people wouldn't understand if they walked in on the two of you with him undressed w. -- arms, legs, & torso draped over you (or in bed with you). It's important to stay light hearted & playful ... wrestling & gentle grabbing (all in jest of course) will lower remaining inhibitions even further. With my last "conquest" (said tongue in cheek because we're still great friends & I'd do anything for the guy in emergency), the climatic event occurred during a wrestling match where we were both in our skivvies. I got him pinned really good & he sprouted wood (hey, a poem). I told him is wasn't polite to point & then he really went nuts trying to escape as it continued to inflate. I joked with him telling him he wasn't allowed to use it as a club to win our wrestling match. Meanwhile I made sure to keep the pressure on his crotch as I kept him pinned. I continued to laugh, joke & treat it like a non-event. I told him that it looked like his pet python wanted to get "petted". While smiling & making good eye contact, I reached down with my free hand & gave his dick a gentle squeeze while I slid the heel of my hand along his erection toward the base of his balls. Carlos was laughing, thrashing & trying to get away & then began to say "fag"-this & "gay"-that, all while I just kept it lighthearted. When the guy you're wrestling has an erection & is calling you names, the obvious come-back is something like: "You're calling me gay-names but you're the guy with the hard-on? Me thinks the pot is calling the kettle 'black'!" This is what I told Carlos as we kept laughing & wrestling. As he continued to 'grow', I commented that his pet really looked like he'd grown since I'd seen him last. Carlos was really straining trying to break free of my pin & began calling me "gay-epithets" again. I told him, "Still insulting me? That's it ... you're cumming, dude!", I laughed I reached back down & with the heel of my hand I gave him a few slow strokes while he laughed, writhed & yelled. Within a few seconds, his hardening shaft climbed right out through the fly in his boxers. "Looks like your python has a mind of his own!", I joked - being friendly like it was a non-event. He just continued yell-laughing, & thrashing. Carlos is really well endowed & as soon as he was hard, it was easy to get a grip & use his foreskin to stroke him with. I just joked & said there was nothing there that I didn't have or hadn't done myself. Then I stroked him away. Once that started, he didn't last 90 seconds until he shot -- hard. The last minute or so his struggling really subsided because, you see, what he was feeling felt extremely good. I kept my attitude very upbeat & non threatening as I laughed & stroked away; -- letting him know that "I knew" that uncut guys were at the mercy of their dicks & the fact that it was me who got him off was meaningless -- it could have as easily been a strong wind I reasoned out loud! I also let him know that he was a real machine & probably intimidated lots of guys. The lesson is, never condemn, criticize or condescend.
Keep in mind: Carlos & I had been friends for a couple of YEARS before our play evolved to this. However, once he knew that he could be completely open around the dude who treated him better than any other guy did ... he began to make little "truth or dare" bets that usually ended up with him getting his proverbial 'rocks off' at my, eh, hands. Carlos is "straight", but he trusts his very best friend to jack him off (himself) & he also trusts his second best friend (me) with the job of "de-stressing Carlos". We have a great 'g0y' friendship with a level of intimacy that most people would never believe -- especially those who think they "know" us. When something really good, or bad happens, -- I'm the one he calls first. Why? Because he knows that of all the people on the planet, - I really love him. Not gAy ... g0y!

Education Fast-Track:
Part of educating a guy about being a g0y is to make some simple observations to show him how harmless being with another guy physically really is:

A) It's all skin, Bro. Whether face, feet or foreskin, -- it's all just skin on skin.
B) Nothing I haven't got; Nothing I haven't done. Basically: I'm a guy with a dick & I know how to make it happy.
C) News Flash: Jacking-off is sex with someone the same gender as you - that you trust intimately. Hello!
D) It's not gAy ... nobody got arse-phucked. That shit doesn't even enter my mind!
E) Do you think I'd ever do anything to hurt you or your reputation Bro? I luv ya: Trust, eh?
F) Guys love to cum & I kinda like watch'n ya lose control. ...Not a big deal. (Combine with B above)
G) It's kewl ... a guy thing. N0T gAy ... "G0Y"! It's total respect bro. You trust me, right? Relax.
H) It's a sad day when people routinely get closer to animals than they do their friends. Roll over Rover.

And keep in mind: These are not techniques to seduce str8-guys. This is "verbal sparring" to relax a g0y who may be confused about what he's feeling & the stigmas he feels attached to male/male bonding because of "gAy" press.

One of the reasons it's fairly easy to seduce a guy (even if you're a guy) - is because most guys have no idea it's happening to them. After all -- it's a "friendship" that grows closer & less formal over time. Time is a major element -- because after all, -this IS A REAL FRIENDSHIP & they take TIME! DUH! See, unlike the guy trying to pick up a lady with a few smart-arse lines ... a dude seducing another dude will make a close friendship integral to the last stage -- physical intimacy. Depending on the personalities of each guy and the position on Kinsey's scale -- the amount of time this takes is a wide variable. Also -- the more attractive YOU ARE as a guy plays a major role. Of course -- anticipating the needs of a guy & being there to fill in the gap is a massive way of letting a guy know that you care about him as a friend. Actions speak volumes louder than words. Got a friend who's going thru a financial hard time? Leaving that $20 sticking out of the fridge to be discovered after you leave is a great way to let your buddy know you care. After all -- in a world where people love money; -leaving it lets your friend know where he falls in your eyes. It's non-verbal & powerful. You do love your friend more than money, right?
Physical affection is the key hurdle to get over. Once you're wrestling & you've managed to get massaging on the guy ... the process is at top speed. Hanging out turns into staying overnight & sharing the same bed. Being stripped down in the same bed is a step away from gentle wrestling involving some light tickling & joking-groping. This process takes time -- seldom happening in a single session. It needs to feel spontaneous & once you're this closely bonded to another guy -- he'll eventually let you do what he alone is trusted to do with his masculine locus: Masturbate it. This is why the trust factor needs to be 2nd to none. And after the guy shoots under the guide of your accepting hand -- the act will create a bond because of the neurotransmitters released in the process. It's very important that you be ready to explain what "g0y is" soon after -- to comfort the guy who's been brainwashed about same-sex attractions being "bad" his whole life. No camp ... & no arse-phuck means g0y -- not gAy. Two buddies helping each other pump out a wad is the closest bonding experience that best friends can share. Be naked without shame & he will be too.

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