contains content authored by people who actually have passionate beliefs
that matter. We don't tolerate fools well, -nor do we make light of
life/death issues. We don't giggle at mindsets that downplay perilous
philosophies, actions, or the effects of such. I.E:
Dr. Ignaz Semmelweis is one of our role-models. Like
Semmelweis's common-sense approach to hygiene, -G0YS simply point out
the well known
perils about playing in SHIT; --Perils that the "" community
desperately seems to want to ignore & make light of the cause/s. Of
course, -being a g0y involves more to a guy's personality profile than a
natural revulsion to using soiled diapers as a picnic spread. But,
sanity is always a good place to start. If you find yourself being
"offended" at content on this site, --simply ask yourself: "Are these
g0ys denouncing a group or act that is dangerous, disrespectful,
demeaning, disease-spreading or deadly?" -&- "Is the tone of the site
appropriate to the seriousness of the subject matter?". If the obvious
answer is "YES", -then you're experiencing a variation of the "Semmelweis
Reflex"; --And G0YS are not the cause of your offense ... (Your
own warped worldview is).
"There is no amount of fact or truth that will sway the depraved
mind. The depraved mind revels in the excrement of lies." - D. Champion
"Here's a thought: If LITERALLY and ACCURATELY describing what you
advocate & condone sounds like an INSULT, -maybe it's because you're
advocating and condoning irrational, immoral crap. The proper
solution is not to bitch at the people pointing that out. The proper
solution is to STOP advocating and condoning irrational, immoral
crap." - Larken Rose
In ALL of the
time I've spent editing this site and fielding e-mails &
criticism, -I have noticed (1) glaringly loud subject that the
avoid above all others.
will not discuss the
FACT that ALL major global health organizations have
as the single
most perilous sex-act
a person can engage in +5000% more dangerous than
HATE the FACT that, today, +95% of virtually ALL sexually
transmitted diseases can be rapidly traced to the act of the
virtually every contagion chain! This FACT weighs more than ALL of the
other FACTS that VALIDATE G0YS position on the matter, - &
FACT is the one the
avoid discussing more than they
avoid the plague. Literally. AIDS is one (of many) such plagues
that spread especially well via
! So rather than
address actual substance, the
crowd falls back on
slandering g0ys with accusations; -Calling g0ys names like
"homophobic", "misogynistic", "trans-phobic", etc. Anyone who
spends actual time on this website knows that those assertions
are bullsh!t; -but even if it was all true (& even if g0ys kick
a puppy every day); -NONE OF THOSE SLURS CHANGE THE FACT THAT
WILL NOT ADDRESS THE WELL-SETTLED TRUTH THAT IS THE
MASSIVE DISEASE-SPREADING & TRAUMATIC, PHYSICAL, REAL-WORLD OUTCOMES OF
! NO APOLOGY!
discovered around the age of 13 that I really enjoyed the close
company of a select number of my male friends. Because home
life was so sheltered, I had no access to adult material -so I did
not make any connection with my feelings being "sexual", -nor was my
interest in my buddies directed at their genitals to any degree
whatsoever. I was simply the friend who'd wrestle with a buddy and
then bust into massaging him - often during the wrestling. The
massage would almost always subdue the guy immediately and then I'd
have what I wanted: close contact with a buddy stripped down to his
shorts. If it was a stay-over, -I'd take steps to be sure we
ended up wrestling right before bedtime so that I could end up
wrapped around the guy rubbing on him throughout the night. I
greatly enjoyed the close contact. As I got older, I
eventually made the connection with the sexuality component of my
feelings. And it turned out that a number of my peers were
experiencing similar patterns of social development. As we now
know - this is a very common pattern of development among men.
Not any part of this pattern was any semblance of gender-bending nor
any effeminate behavior. And there was absolutely no place for
(it didn't enter our minds) -as that notion was
-& still is- a
completely offensive thought process. The battle that many
guys experience is the implied notion broadcast by the
"gay-community" that "" would have fit into our early
male/male affection paradigm. G0YS know instinctively that
does not fit nor will it ever.
is a highly perilous gender-bending act that
proxies a man in the stead of a woman's anatomy and debases the
participants on a number of levels.
also spreads diseases +5000%
faster than any other act (according to the CDC, WHO & ARC)!
This distinction (the lack of anal-fetishes) is what distinguishes
g0ys (+55% of the male population) from morally-soft gAys (<7% of
the male population). And most men feel such a moral revulsion
at the thought of
that they do not disclose the same-gender
aspects of their pasts for fear of being lumped in with the
- tolerating crowd called "gay". The
sexual expression and core values of g0ys are fundamentally
different from the "" crowd and g0ys do not feel any
camaraderie with guys who act like woman-wanna-be's in their mannerisms. G0YS
now know that we're part of the MAJORITY of men.
Shocked? Some guys feel a
great sense of separation from others over time as they live
with the FALSE presumption that same-gender-affections make them
somehow different from average guys. You see, most
guys have same gender attractions! Over 60% do! The
MAJORITY! Yeah! But, many of us
got the 'message' all of our lives (post 1950) that guys who
were into other guys were ("gender inverted")...
Our families, churches, friends, enemies, schools, etc., -- often
painted a language of hate speech aimed at all 'socially
forbidden attractions'. There were also stereotypes about
same-sex activity that were often disgusting distortions
of some type of fetish
: Most guys want nothing to do with that sort of
dangerous & debased behavior). Most of us could not
identify with the way 'gay' was portrayed in the public psyche, so we adopted the
same 'anti-' rhetoric as our friends, families, churches,
schools, & even our enemies - all in order to stay hidden
because we did NOT identify nor relate with what the term "GAY"
But, as we got older, we also begin to realize that
maybe, other so-called, self-professing 'STR8' guys weren't what they
projected, either! Something was missing: A conscious
articulation of our innate G0YS' perspective vs. "GAY"!
15 year-old says!
"They fuck'n do what!" - was
the phrase that exploded out of my mouth into our biology class.
I was 15 years old at the time & my friend, Tom, had just told
me about the
oriented things that the "gay guys" did - who lived next door to
the rural high school I attended. I wasn't sure where Tom
got his information, but the Biology teacher (Sue) explained
that "When a guy has (1) orifice
down there - what do you think!". Living in a rural
northern state in the mid 80's - I was naive. I didn't
scope porn - so I didn't know about the whole GAY=
stereotype. This new information suddenly made it much clearer
to me why the "FAGS" had such a sh!t-tainted reputation. I honestly felt
sick to my stomach - because I had realized since I was 12 that
I liked guys & at 15 I still liked guys (& could care less
about women). However, I HAD NO INCLINATION WHATSOEVER TO
BY ANOTHER GUY! Tom's info
activities of "gay guys" created a great deal of
concern & disgust within me. I had always thought that
the girlie guyths who acted like their aunts or sisters were
repugnant to my sense of being a guy; -But the news that Tom
broke that day now indicated that gays wanted to
as a proxy for women, too! And that information was simply too
demoralizing to let slide. I was a guy who recognized the fact
that I preferred guys. But, I had no inclination to be a woman, be
like a woman
nor treat any other guy like a bitch!
And I was seriously distraught that anyone might think for even a moment
that I would ever
a buddy or
myself - simply because I loved guys; - So I reinforced the closet
I had been living in and ramped up the anti-fag, anti-
rhetoric. In light of Tom's information (confirmed by our
biology teacher), - I knew that there must to be a different
of guy who loved guys but would never
a guy! And
whatever that "kind of guy" was called - I was it. (Today, what
I was can now be classified as a straight-acting Kinsey-6 G0Y.
But at the time, the g0ys movement hadn't happened.) And this
g0y thing nails it! And the fact that gAys have the highest
rates of sexually transmitted diseases, while g0ys are among the
very lowest - speaks huge fuck'n volumes regarding the
behavioral differences! Long since I was 15, -I have
discovered that lots of so-called straight guys are actually
"Bi" - and behaviorally g0y. And when you form a tight
friendship with such - the benefits of physically connecting
with a guy who is emotionally secure in his male gender identity
as well as having an ethos that would never expect a man to play
the role of a woman; - It is vastly superior to the compromises
made by men who want to be with a man while not seeming a man
themselves - but some plasticized gender morph who thinks
"testosterone" is a 4-letter word. Having had DECADES to
observe the differences between regular guys who happened to
love guys too - compared to the alphabet soup of GLIBTQGAY,
etc: That 15 year-old is still absolutely right: G0Ys are morally
superior to the
's! No Apology Needed!
Real Reason for so-called 'Homo Hate':
men loathe the concept of
; - even being
! Men who rape
men use that form of assault for a reason: It is the ultimate
statement of disrespect.
The original use of the word
"FUCK" was a 'cuss' insinuating penetration. It is the
verbal approximation of the nonverbal noises ASSociated with
. So then, the term "fuck-you" has a very
specific meaning when spoken man to man!
Since the media, (& now
society), - generally ASSerts: That "All Same-Sex Affection =
since the media asserts that "GAY*sex*" =
; -- Most men
logically connect the term "gay" with
- something that they'd never do to their buddies!
And, like it or not: Guys who wear the "gay" label make
guilty by ASSociation
w. a group that loudly TOLERATES EVERY perversion under the sun
-& calls that clusterphuck: "gay
pride"! G0YS, however, believe that pride should be
not male/male intimacy; -- But the dirty, disrespectful & even
dangerous attitudes towards masculinity such as
men want absolutely nothing to do with such forms of moral turpitude.
The term "GAY" is generally shunned, -not because it implies tender,
physical male friendships, --but because the term is solidly welded to
the notions of
, Gender-Bending & other forms of abuse in the
public psyche. Most men find those implications grossly offensive to
their own ethos.
"You bark - like dogs!
Dogs lack a full
vocabulary. They have 1 word -for everything. And that word doesn't
bode well in print to explain anything. To understand them - it's
all context based (not what they "say" but "how" they "say" it)!
My point is that sloppy use of words results in the vague conveyance
of ideas. If you want to have a discussion or debate, --your
terminology needs to be precise. But I hear lots of people barking
like dogs on the issue of human sexuality (& lots of these people
have college degrees). Once your vocabulary is precise, -terms
like "Gay", "Straight", "Bi", "Lifestyle" & the like, -all begin to
sound like a whole lot of barking. Why? Because they are inherently
meaningless & describe fictional states that are constructions of
prejudice, vagaries, ignorance & dogma.
I.E: When the term "GAY" was coined, --it originally meant "Same
Gender Attracted". G0YS have no issue with THAT
simple definition. However, -as time passed, the term "GAY" became
connected with cross-gender behaviors (which is why "intersexed" &
"transgender" ride in the gay-pride passenger seats) & perilous acts
. In most places, the term "GAY-SEX" has come to
equate "". G0YS completely reject that notion and find the ASSociation repugnant to our innate morals. Please keep
those distinctions in mind whenever you read a G0Y commentary
critical of "The GAYS". It is not the original use of the
, -that g0ys find reprehensible
(& "reprehensible" is perhaps, -too soft of a descriptor).
is not our mascot!
G0YS don't play in shit, -nor do we fetishize its origin. It's possible to be a guy who loves guys
without having to live like a dung beetle. The
(- the primary erotic focus of the "GAY-male
paradigm"), -makes it the most sexually-debased movement on the
planet evidenced (Say "evidenced") by an unparalleled history of disease-statistics proving
this assertion beyond any shadow of a doubt!"
The Real Message of Prejudice:
For so long,
society's continual message ... to the guy who loved guys -even
if he didn't openly identify with the term "gay" ... to the
person unsuspected as having anything other than 'straight'
feelings ... What that ultimate message really said was:
...that the real person (the one with the real
feelings kept behind a mask), was unacceptable by virtue of
his very nature. After all, if you have close friends &
ties with family all based on an incomplete projection of who
you are, -- AND these same people openly cursed, loathed
& demeaned people who openly have the same types of
feelings that you so carefully concealed; - Then the implied
message can only be: 'You are hated for who you really
are; - despite the fact that you may have even seem to be the
most popular person in the room'. That has been MY
experience - even till the present day. This is why many
people who deal with strong same-sex affections have a suicide
rate much higher than other demographic groups. The
realization that "Everybody
who loves me - actually hates me."
is too brutal for many guys to handle. So, without being
armed with the g0ys' powerful counter-argument; - drinking, drugs,
disease, & depression become a fatal dynamic for many men trying
to "cope" w. their feelings. And, for many men who do not
'gay-identify' (maybe even have a wife & kids), coming out to
the world may not seem an option because you simply don't
identify with the vast majority of what "gay" has come to mean.
However, if you read on,
you're going to reach the startling conclusion that you were
never as alone as you suspected, and that society
has built a tower of lies around sexuality that they
hypocritically call "morality" on one hand, & "liberation" -
callously on the other. Guys who love guys & aren't
We're G0Y; & we don't play by 'their' shifting, foggy,
obtuse rules any more (hence, this site)! You're N0T
alone! You're N0T a freak. One size doesn't fit all!
And the thing that is really going to bake your noodle is that
there are probably lots (L0TS) of guys in circles that you
frequent feeling the exact same way, -clueless that they're
surrounded by normal guys feeling the same way! What do
have in common with the religious-reicht? Both
groups of liars hate the g0ys movement (because they're actually
opposite poles on the same evil magnet)! Think about it. Read
Wow! Over a decade...
"As I write this
it's difficult to believe that over a decade has passed since the
philosophy of being g0y went online. In retrospect - it has
been an amazing journey - with growth beyond anything I'd have
imagined. Many people from many places around the globe have
identified with the concept and implemented the term "g0y" in their
own cultures, languages & media-forms! It humbles me - honestly. I
know that some may have an impression of me via my pen -that
"humility" was an attribute I could have used more of. I write
forcefully for the sake of the g0ys movement & getting the main
points across in limited time and space. I've seen so many
NON-g0y groups speak lies & half-truths in soft, eloquent speech --
that I wanted to break step with the politics of soft-spoken
nonsense (that often kills anyone who follows the path that softly
spoken lies make). Where I may have gone too far in the extreme
- I whole-heartedly apologize. An where I did not go far enough -
likewise. However, what WE did together was to spread a
message of masculine respect that the Greeks during the time of
Alexander would have been proud of. It's a message of respect
that has literally saved the lives of men in despair - men who had
been made to feel that they were worthless as men because they
happened to love men /too. G0YS has shown that you can be a
man who loves men and live life with masculine respect, health, &
dignity - without the need to embrace affectations, fetishes or
confused-practices that are opposed to our testosterone-tending core
instincts as men. G0Ys believe that "morality" should not be an
abstract set of rules, but predicated on the outcomes of actions.
By its very nature: Love works no ill toward others. The message
seems all too obvious. However, there are many people (especially of
the GAY identity), -who are promoting debasing messages of
at the expense of health, dignity and even life
itself! And because the fallout is so serious, --0ur tone
becomes as serious and uncompromising when the health & lives of men
are at stake. G0YS naturally recognize this hard fact.
These are adult issues for men and the temperament must be likewise.
So many men know these things in their very core. Thanks to all of
you who have made this vision a global reality." - The G0YS
"A word of advice: Hear all men
out, but don't let someone dumber than you teach you metaphysical subject
"It really is true: YOU CAN'T FIX 'STUPID'."
Because Honorable Men Embrace
Sound Principles, Esteem Masculine-Respect, & Reject AnalSex in
by voicing that simple philosophy: G0YS do NOT assimilate
within the culture that calls itself "GAY"!
& The Fact is: Most men strongly relate
G0YS' position on these matters! You too?
Each red dot represents a region that has internet users who have
accessed this website recently.
G0YS - an explosively popular
among men in general
- sweeping the globe (as seen from
etc; - from all over the world). Our
well reasoned positions regarding basic, male/male sexuality have taken to task both:
religious "fundamentalists", -and- the "liberal gay
leftists". G0YS are among the healthiest men of any demographic on the
planet, & sexually transmitted diseases are a virtual
How can this be when the gAy male community is up to its collective
arse with STD's at a rate +4300% higher than the general population!?
G0YS, by our very nature,
G0YS generally think that most mainstream "porn" - particularly
"GAY-porn" - is unappealing & often - highly offensive! We strongly discourage physical
intimacy with anyone who rejects our philosophy regarding the
importance of M/M respect. This
lowers a g0ys risk of perilous sexually transmitted diseases
to less than:
.0003% (vs. the men who call themselves
Our statistics are derived from figures provided by the
regarding the extreme perils of
+90% of ALL
sexually transmitted infections among men (STD's/STI's) are spread via
Demographically, G0YS tend to be libertarian or anarchist, pro-life,
soberly-minded, culturally rounded, analytical, logical,
alpha-personalities & intellectually - above average. And
that's a great group of men to identify with! Contrast g0ys traits against
the group of pseudo-men that ancient history
records as: "[semiviri],
who call each other "girls" [puellae] and have sex with young men,
both as active and as passive partners (tops/bottoms).
Clement of Alexandria said they
lived "lewder lives than the most uncontrolled heathen." Does
this description sound like any
group of people you can think of today? When such
"diversity" foists plagues &
injury upon society, honorable men will say: "Fuck your genre of diversity"!
G0YS' life-philosophy is: "Love is interaction which seeks the
betterment of the other (& does no harm)."; --An Ancient,
Obvious Truth. So, if you're a part of the former group - & respects
masculinity with a mindset that values the character, strength,
reputation, health, integrity & overall wellbeing of other men; -
Then we welcome you to the g0ys primary website. Let us astonish
If you're among the
group - considering men to be mere
objects for your own unbridled pleasure - then we have only
(1) message for the likes of you.
The issue g0ys raise isn't about WHO you LOVE, -
but HOW such LOVE manifests. G0YS value Masculinity,
Integrity, Safety, Strength & Self-Discipline.
NOT a "Sexual Orientation "!
Contrary to many pronouncements by the so-called "experts"
in various media, the g0ys movement is,
NOT a sexual orientation!
The G0YS movement covers the entire range of
male, same-gender attraction as documented by scientific researchers such
as Kinsey. G0YS promote the fundamental fact that
to such research, selectively AmBisexual.
That's the truth: Most men are "discretely Bi" & reject the
promoted by the mass media over the last 50+ years surrounding the term "GAY" and all of
the alphabet-soup GLIBTQetc
variants! Again: Most men do not wish to be
associated with the "GAY cultural clusterfuck"
due to the extremely negative stigmas (such as
& the explosion of
diseases it spreads)!
Goys are statistically normal men who esteem & promote the
positive effects of testosterone in the male human body
and believe that the social virtues of masculinity are
desirable and can be
celebrated without apology
compulsion to proverbially water down masculinity by
emulating the effects of estrogen. G0YS
represent the majority of men (+60%). It's
true! Most men actually (& discretely) love masculine men/too - while
completely rejecting the notion that
doing so has any x-gender dimension to it. G0YS - as a
movement - draw on
over +3000 years of history as proof.
published research that indicated that
of the male population had experienced one or more
sensual/sexual encounters with other men. Despite controversy
surrounding some of his methodology, --
mounting evidence continues to confirm that his scientifically
were indeed, - accurate. Likewise, since this
website went on-line (2003), it has drawn the fire of criticism from many
directions & has been misrepresented by
who would rather
slander, than offer a rational argument for their posturing.
And yet in 2017, an article by The Independent reports that over 49%
of British men between the ages of 18–24 identify as something other
than “heterosexual” when asked
to place themselves on Kinsey’s
sexuality scale. So, the question is: "Are most guys actually
amBIsexual?"; -To which the answer is "Yes" (Here's
It's been 14+ years since g0ys began to loudly
denounce traditional "wisdom' about basic male sexuality, -and the
are rapidly getting out of the straight/gay dichotomy-bag very
quickly. And, when anyone takes a long serious look at history - it turns
out that the g0ys' phenomenon is very well documented - garnishing
laurels of praise stretching
back over several millennia; - While a subculture-minority of
-deviants (the odd stereotypes of semi-viri that modern
society labels "gay") has also been given
in ancient writings as well! The tragedy is that modern
society has lost sight of the extreme differences that results from
behavioral patterns. G0YS is a movement that educates men
to realize that the cluster-fuck of "anything-goes regardless of the
outcome" group called "gay" probably doesn't represent them -
primarily due to ethical considerations (based on the outcomes of
behaviors). So, g0ys coincidentally, divide the
moral from the immoral (using the outcomes of group behaviors
as the clear litmus-test between the two). In simple terms: If
you treat other men in such a manner where your behavior results in sexually transmitted diseases are thousands of
percentage points higher than in the general population (so men
suffer trauma disease & death as a result); - Then you are IMMORAL --
NOT G0Y. So then - this g0y phenomenon is not about pettiness,
-but about matters of life and death and what it means to be a
civilized man (regardless of who you love). And if you can't
acknowledge the clear Black/White
distinction: Then you're dumber than most
. Indeed, -it has been clearly
demonstrated that the lower a person's IQ is - the more likely they
are to get coerced into engaging in
perilous behavior such as AnalSex. This also
explains why people who are on drugs that impair mental function
(such as alcohol) are also much more likely to engage in extremely
risky behavior such as drunk-driving or the aforementioned.
"Stupid is as stupid does." - F. Gump
the anti-gay & pro-sodomy groups stridently opposed to the
views of the G0YS, -it makes you wonder why neither group can
rationally accept the g0ys' time-proven message of: love &
respect - framed in honesty, dignity, health &
self-control." - Unbekannt
mind job: You thought that
You were virtually alone!
may be here because you feel completely alone in your
situation. After all, you're basically a regular guy who
behaves like any other regular guy. You may even date women or
be married. But, deep inside, you also deal with strong
feelings of real warmth + genuine affection for other guys too.
You've seen the media's take on the "gay" community; & you
do N0T relate to that image, AND you find many of the practices
of so-called "gay-men" -repulsive to your basic values system.
The truth is, you're a guy who really loves masculinity &
appreciates those traits in other men, while simultaneously finding
actions that effeminize men to be grossly distasteful. You probably look forward to holidays with
your buds -- especially those times when you can horse around,
wrestle & even be a little tender -- like when you've had a few
(or maybe just got done pinning the guy down wrestling) &
your arm around him - in a
casual, reaffirming hug. You're the definition of "respectful", but
you want to be closer, too. At the same time, the notion of ass-sex
is the farthest thing from your mind; - An act absolutely repulsive
to your masculine ethos. The mind-blowing truth is that the odds are greatly in your favor that the majority of your buds feel
the same feelings for a few guys they know - in various degrees! Your peace of
mind will actually come by understanding what's
truly good & natural behavior, -as
opposed to "shameful disrespect" masquerading as "progressive
gay-culture". Are you ready to live a more abundant life by
learning to apply wisdom to your thought process
-while rejecting the fool's errands society's educated fools task the
do stand apart!
repeatedly, G0YS do not consider our movement part of the GLIBTQetc
alphabet soup clusterfuck. The appearance & nature of our
g0y-friendships are much more casual & not stereotypical of the
specters of the "gay" community. It's because g0ys see the
fundamental nature of male/male relationships as friendships that
simply include an intense, personal aesthetic appreciation of
a healthy, developed male physique. Part of the g0y viewpoint is predicated on
a philosophy summarized by an ancient Hebrew legal principle: To HAVE NOTHING TO DO with the FRUITLESS DEEDS
OF DARKNESS - but rather, EXPOSE THEM. Why? Because people die due
to the consequences of participating in perilous acts such as
AnalSex ()! Bad
company corrupts good character & g0ys generally believe that the
GLIBTQetc movement is such "Bad company" due to the indiscriminate
acceptance of behavioral lowest common denominators. And it is the lack of discernment &
absence of denunciation of perilous acts such as
(having killed millions of people via diseases) - that has destroyed
much of the credibility of the GLIBTQetc movement in the eyes of the g0ys.
AND, on the other side of the isle, for the same
reasons, G0YS denounce the theological
half-baked doctrines (that condemn same-gender intimate
relationships for no reason other than the gender composition) of the so-called mainstream ecumenical &
evangelical church/s & every cult that leverages the
same reprehensible theology! True morality has always been about the real-world
consequences of actions ("A tree is known of its fruit"); - Not some sloppy, nonsensical interpretation of
religious texts; - Nor the virtue-signals of people who want to
embrace every deadly act in the name of "tolerance"! The g0ys
movement is for men who are truly concerned by what makes right,
right & wrong, wrong! Brain & spine are both required if you're
one of the G0YS!
"Bromance" is a term that is G0Y at its very core.
93 Percent of "Straight" Men In
They've Cuddled With Another Guy
to the beliefs of the "gay-press" in ref to so-called "straight - men"
who are "suddenly cuddling with each other"; - This is not
new behavior, but is "coming back out of the proverbial
closet". The reason it went into the closet was because men of solid moral
character (who simply happened to love men / too) sought to avoid
any association with perilous sexual behavior stereotypes (I.E: AnalSex, "drag",
"scat", "fisting", etc.) that
established extremely negative reputations early on in what many
call the "gay revolution". Male closeness is now becoming more
visible - not because these men have any compulsion to label
themselves "", - but due to a desensitized social view of relaxed
male intimacy in general. Make no mistake; - Many of these "bromantic" friendships
are & will eventually manifest privately as G0Y
when +63% of the population is
same-gender-attracted to some degree (as is the claim of
g0ys.org based on Kinsey's numbers)
this behavior will appear more
often as the "shock-factor" of same-gender-intimacy dulls &
those outlets of the media that have capitalized on bizarre
portrayals of it for so long. The contemporary exposure of the term "Bromance" in the media is giving
a dramatically increased low-profile opening for g0y relationships
among men. The current stereotype of "Bromantic" friendships does
not generally include "sex" as a component in the definition; - To
which I say - "Of course it doesn't - because if it did -
people who lack discernment might call it 'gay' (& the
Bro's giving their Bro's a 'helping-hand' aren't talking)!". "Bromance"
is the PERFECT (& I mean "ABSOLUTELY PERFECT") G0Y smokescreen!
This is because what is being called: "Bromance" is and has been the
very model for g0y friendships since men were invented! Here's a
simple riddle: "When +63% of the population is
same-gender-attracted to some degree, how many "Bromances" will become sexual?" You
don't need much insight to realize that the answer is: "About +63%"!
I don't know when the traditional Greek model will become the social
norm again; -But I do know that human nature does not change, - so what
the Greeks knew about male sexuality a few millennia ago will
- eventually- become the rediscovered standard. And as that time approaches - the
"loud, queeny, disease-spreading spectre of
" will be pushed back
into the marginalized shadows of dismay & disgrace - as men quickly rediscover
that they don't need condoms, lube or a proctologist-on-speed-dial
(because the best emotional and sexually satiating intimacy between
men does NOT involve jack-hammering another man's ass
like a proxy for female genitalia)!
G0Y: Loving Guys never involves fetishizing sh!t-holes."
So, once a guy
many other guys are also receptive to M2M
(rejecting the spectre of
-- he often has an extreme epiphany, - in which he realizes that
his feelings of deep compassion for some of his peers are totally
normal, ethical & part of natural, masculine
these same guys generally do N0T relate to the bizarre
alphabet-soup (GLIBTQetc...) culture they see
the mass-media portray as: "GAY"! Such men are
(spelled with a ZER0)'; -- & the mind blowing truth
We (g0ys) represent the historical
male majority experience!
because that's the truth - you won't need switch off your higher
brain functions, nor compromise your ethics, nor accept
gender-bending behavior forced on you, nor abandon your faith (as some men have been falsely led to
with questions along Theological lines -
see the "God
to the left!
G0YS - making
waves in the media!
is currently a rapidly growing GLOBAL phenomenon. That's a documented fact -as many people are
translating the simple, core g0y philosophies into their own
languages and impacting their own cultures. Major "GAY" publications are taking note
of the G0Ys movement (such as the South African "GAY PAGES" as shown
to the right). Some are curious; -others confused & yet others
even welcoming (especially in areas where STD's like HIV have
ravaged the population). Some "GAY" publications &
commentaries are outright hostile toward g0ys --especially in those
regions where "GAY" has been welded to the specter of AnalSex (a
fetish that g0ys totally reject).
What men all over the world
are discovering is that g0ys are -and have been- the MAJORITY of
"normal guys" all along! That's the real story!
If the term "GAY" merely
meant "Same-Gender-Attracted", -g0ys would not have needed to create
a different term for ourselves. However, since the 1970's, the word "GAY" has
morphed into a
gender-bending & disease-spreading,
circus-show with no sense of healthy self-restraint (hence
spreading STDs/STIs at a rate
+4300% of the population at large)! G0YS stand against the herd
mentality of narcissistic, callous, masculinity-debasing
offer no apology.
+60% is +3
out of Every 5 Guys! No "Minority"!
love the contact & would like to be closer, but you have these fears
that people might think you are a "homo". However,
unlike the most common stereotypes about what "gay men do",
you have absolutely NO desire to put
anything up another guy's arse, but the fact remains that
you'd really enjoy cuddling up with the dude; - slow rubb'n on him &
generally make him feel good from brows to balls. You're into
masculine guys but you're not ... "gay" -- at least
not like the media portrays "gay" as! You don't
care about any media programming with the word "Queer" in it;
nor do you relate (at all) to men who prance about with the same
mannerisms as the
guys in movies such as the: Bird Cage. Statistics show that
over +60% of the men around you deal with similar feelings! That's 3
out of every 5 guys (and it may be as high as 2 out of 3)! Whatever
the case, -it is the MAJORITY of men. Take a few moments to
meditate on that last point. MOST GUYS FEEL THIS WAY. It's
not a "minority"
as you've been so often told (The
consists of the
guys in high-heels with
dildos stuffed up their asses)!
What has occurred is that the stigmas & negative stereotypes
term "GAY" (a product of a vile, shameless & vocal
have shamed most men (via the mass-media) into denying the scope of their actual feelings
for certain other men - and obscured the fullness of their sexuality
(hiding it behind relationships with women).
Virtually ALL men
are amBIsexual to some degree. Repeat it until it sinks in
and changes your world view.
Yes. I'm saying that
all guys find attractive men to be desirable as close friends (&
more ... I.E: FR0T). That is the FACT that most
guys are lying about. "I'm straight" - says a prepubescent 10 year old boy. And his
peers believe it! Why? They're naive! A 10 year old knows nothing
about sexuality (his nor anyone else's). +3 years from now, -he'll
probably be doing a circle-jerk &
FR0T with a few of his close male
Wake up, brother! People lie all the time; --& in this matter of
sexuality --they often lie when the truth would serve them well.
The terms "Gay", "Straight", "Bi", "Lifestyle" & the like, -are
inherently meaningless; -& often describe fictional states of mind
that are constructions of prejudice, vagaries, ignorance & dogma.
The MAJORITY of men who profess to be "TOTALLY STRAIGHT" are lying.
Read that to yourself until it registers. It's that simple.
MOST GUYS FIND ATTRACTIVE GUYS TO BE
ATTRACTIVE. Did I say "MOST". I actually meant, "MOST"!
Pick 5 men at random. Statistically, 3+ of them (by their very
natures) are g0ys (selectively amBIsexual & completely disinterested
in gender-bending in any way, shape or form)! I've got a friend named "Todd", a guy (&
vet) I deeply respect; -Who once commented to me in private: "You
know that phase guys go thru when you're trying to figure out if you
like guys or women...". His honesty stunned me and to this day
& I've never outed him despite the telling comment. What he presumed was that his
experience was normal for everyone. He was only 53%
right! As a Kinsey-6 guy,
I've never had that dichotic dilemma. But, I now understand
the perspective of Kinsey-0 guys who think that "straight" is the
default. That's their experience.
The fact is that most guys are
BI, -while the men on the endpoints - even when their numbers
are added together, are still the minority!
"Forget the former
things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
Another fascinating observation is of the number of groups
(especially porn oriented)
appearing on the internet that exploit the term "g0y" - spelled w.
a zer0; --without actually holding to the core g0y-philosophy! What a
bunch of "0xyMorons"! Remember, -we warned you about their
Sorry, but the pure-light of g0ydom was bound to attract the
Also be aware that it
is virtually impossible to keep accurate definitions or resource
links about g0ys on any public platform such as WikiPedia. This is
due to the fact that the " community" has so many
queens that they simply cannot
tolerate the fact that a health-centric group of men such as g0ys
exist; -And they continuously edit & vandalize any detailed
submissions & introduce inaccuracies.
SHA-512 the Wikipedia G0YS article & it
doesn't contain the sequence "A628BC29AF" at the end of the HASH -
then you can know the page has been defaced from the g0ys submitted
gonna keep on
locker-room trash-talk about ''
isn't about basic masculine affection!
This website examines many stereotypes about guys who are affectionate
on other dudes (M2M Male-to-Male Affection); -- & it smashes the
"gay" stereotypes with a line of thinking that is backed by an
ancient paradigm; - The astonishing truth being that guys who luv guys are
in the majority & most often do N0T identify with the
labeled as "GAY" by the media! You see, there is a
growing body of
(I/E: above Kinsey stats)
showing that it is
for most men to feel warmth, affection & compassion toward
other men. However, in a society where the modern-media
almost exclusively shows men who "love" men as effeminate,
milquetoast, nellie, & into
, -- the
that is loudly broadcast is that "Normal men feel affection only
for women, but men who are tender on other men are into ""."
That message (a gigantic fukk'n lie), is relatively new -
since the post-mid 20th century. And
it is the Gay-Male media that is the loudest promoter of that lie. And that message - the
LIE - causes a great deal of social confusion. And most men
actively avoid any association with the "
label" for that very
-what are these protesters actually protesting?
image to the right: It was taken in Latvia at a demonstration and
the sign says: "Homosexuality is immoral" across the top. But, what
is the IMAGE associated with "homosexuality" on that very same sign? AnalSex! And WHY is the
the "gay mascot"? It's the mantra
of the gay-male community. The image of
is so morally objectionable
(for many sound, rational, medical reasons)
that people often completely forget about the existence of
LESBIANS while engaged in the debate about "GAYS"! Consider
that fact for a moment. LESBIANS (who, generally, don't
anyone) have the lowest rates of STD's of any demographic (except -
maybe, g0ys)! And the signs displayed in the image to the right
certainly do NOT seem to be targeting lesbians. Hmm.
to, & well recorded in history,
are cultures of men who loved masculinity, - and were N0T
nor the feminization of other guys. And the
truth is, that there are lots of guys who luv other guys & would
love to cuddle up (not with everyone, but w. the buds they
! However the stigma of "" & the media images around what "they" say about men who luv men
"do", - scares the social-balls off of most guys, & prevents
them from being openly affectionate toward other guys! Ironically,
the "gay male community" has become the loudest icon AGAINST male to
male intimacy! It's what happens when society lets
frame the argument. And men all over the globe in a movement called
"g0ys" are declaring the harsh distinction between "g0ys" vs. "gAys".
And when people hear about that distinction -
amazing changes occur in the behavior of entire populations!
Sadly, there is a
paranoid section of society (eternally on the proverbial witch-hunt)
that has become so disconnected with the reality of natural
affection, that any demonstration of same-gender-affection is seen to be
some sort of 'foreplay' & a
precursor. The proverbial inmates, -for a
major part, - have indeed, taken over "the asylum"!
G0YS stand as a firm reminder that most men reject the "gay-male
paradigm", -- especially among men who happen to love
Yeah, for a lot of guys!
the divisive & fictional concept of a 'heterosexual-norm',
- modern fallacies like "sexual
orientation" become as farcical as the medieval
concepts of a sun circling a flat earth! The vast
majority of the male population is amBIsexual (a/k/a "BiSexual")
to some degree. Deal with it. It's OK. Renew your mind!
Aren't you g0ys just
term "phobic" comes from the root "PHOBIA" - meaning fear.
Being guys who love guys/too, it seems fairly obvious that we're
not afraid of guys who love guys. What g0ys see as a
paramount issue is the SELF-INFLICTED-REPUTATION that has
community & the imperative need to distance ourselves
from that reputation. Why? Stigma
(See analogy to
For example, what does x-dressing have to do with being
a guy into guys? Clothing is a cultural thing, so why do
so many people associate cross dressing with "gay"?
In other words: If "gay" is merely about who a person is
attracted to - as so many people blindly assert; -- then why
make the connection with Drag, or other
The glaring implications of this common association mindset are
psychology of many "gAy" men into "drag" is a fixation on what
is perceived to be feminine. However, the fixation is more
often about "form" than actual function. This MISsPERCEPTION,
-- that places "form" on a pedestal, - invariably leads to
sexual expression that is likewise - more about form - than
. This is a psychosis - & an unhealthy,
fetish-driven fantasy-life. To reiterate: What does being
a guy who is sexually interested in guys - have anything
whatsoever to do with gender-bending in any way shape or form?
Absolutely nothing; - & g0ys find the mixing of the concepts to be
offensive. We are men who love men[.] It has nothing to do
with the feminine. Implying otherwise is simply a LIE.
Human nature being what it is -- we don't expect many gAys (up to
their collective arse-holes in lie-based fetish-fantasy), -to
embrace what is g0y: Quite the opposite... And you know ... g0ys
really don't care.
All G0YS detest
the concept of
We're not the
only group that feels this way; -And you'll notice I
used the gender-neutral term "group",
& not "guy", -- because whether male or female ...
is a very dangerous fetish. Many people consider
immoral because the
practice is, by far (Meaning: There is no close 2nd!) , the primary vector
for spreading STDs globally. This gigantic point is made in
multiple places on this site because the stigma around the peril is
predominant in the public psyche, --
guys into the practice of
seem oblivious to that fact & exhibit a
general, criminal callous disregard for the safety of others
by their acceptance & even promotion of such dangerous actions. The
language such guys
use to address other guys into AnalSex is likewise
gender-degrading: "Girl", "Bitch", "Queen", etc.
Simply: more evidence that there are elements in '' culture that
deride masculinity, & do not know how to treat/be men with
respect - in
One writer observed that the 'gAy male culture'
seems schizophrenic: On the one hand idolizing
hyper-masculinity, & on the other hand seeming preoccupied with
''. Bizarre role models result in bizarre group
behavior -- hence the preoccupation with
However, just a great meal does not involve a bowl of shit for
dessert; -- Neither does making love to another guy have
anything to do with
. G0YS realize the
common-sense fact that penetration
only equals sex when with women &
only when genital-to-genital; -- Never
G0YS reject association with a culture that is framed in the mind of the public as a
bunch of shit-tainted,
We choose the term
"G0Y" because we are men who reject all of the 'self-inflicted baggage'
ASSociated with the " community". G0YS
-by our very natures- find most gay-stereotypes ethically offensive
& derisive to healthy masculine behavior.
Human nature being what it is
-- I don't expect guys into
-fetishes to embrace what is
g0y: Quite the opposite... And you know ...
g0ys really don't care
what those with a
about us. What many g0ys believe is the real truth of the
matter is that g0ys are a group of men that value virtue,
legal-ethics, masculinity (that thing that happens naturally
when the testosterone dial is set high); -while g0ys shun
who would debase & belittle those virtues (a rancid attitude
that has been enshrined in the current "gay-male
paradigm"). It is
a massive kick to the collective "GLIB.ETC..."
alphabet-soup manginas: A group of masculine, ethical men who
love men/too while rejecting the nondiscerning-sleaze that calls itself
There is a fundamental
syllogistic fallacy (reasoning
error) that can be described by following generalization:
categories are said to be connected because they share a common
flaw in reasoning is promoted time & time again by people who insist
that: Because (2) groups (g0y & gAy) share a common property (M2M
sexuality), that they are connected (Ergo: Both "GAY").
G0YS insist that the common element of same-gender-attraction doesn't make
G0YS any more part of the
"GAY" community than "ice-bergs" can be called "sea-water"
merely because both contain
"water". Ice, even when formed from sea water - is
actually fresh; -Having crystallized-out the salt & other
impurities. You can consume it and live - whereas the raw
seawater will eventually kill you if consumed. Likewise, the fact that the term "gay" is
nebulous (lacking a clear social definition), -constitutes the basis
of the need for distinction g0ys leverage - because the inability of the
gay-community to police itself or set any behavioral standards within,
constitutes a caveat that is the basis for g0ys need to make the
distinction between "US" vs. "THEM". Today, many people
(both from within & without the gay community) associate the term
"gay" with forms of behavior that every major health
monitoring group on earth has identified as extremely perilous (some
+5000% more perilous in fact) & many people also find morally
reprehensible - even criminal. And if you drink the "GAY" sea-water
of indiscretion; - it will make you ill and will eventually,
probably kill you. G0YS
unapologetically filter that sh!t out!
Some people, (who cannot seem to
understand our sense of incredulity & disgust about the reputation
that "gay male" community has brought upon itself) accuse g0ys of
being "self loathing" or words to that effect. So, once again - I'll
clarify our position to those who make such assertions: We don't
loathe ourselves. We loathe
. If you don't understand the difference
between "us" & "you", -I'm sure that there are several
great books for preschoolers available -with big colorful pictures that
explain the difference between those pronouns.
So then: G0YS are not
"phobic" at all. It's a healthy aversion
away from the group that calls itself "GAY" ("GAYs" wanting to
claim all same-sex affections as their collective own, and then,
coincidentally, submerge them all by
ASSociation into a
moral-cesspool of perilous-fetishes &
genderfuck). Most men happen to strongly agree with g0ys on
a gut level -whether or not they're open in admitting it.
If this is not you or you feel some need to defend "all things
", then you're in the wrong place.
Click here to exit
to something "GAY"...
There is a Deadly, Insanity Inducing Pathogen spread via
In nature there is a disease called
ToxoPlasMosis that affects the brains of animals it infects
so that the smell of cat-urine becomes unoffensive. Rats - who
by nature are repelled by the smell of cat-urine (for obvious
reasons), oddly find the smell to be sexually arousing once
infected. These rats are more often caught & eaten by cats & the
cycle of the pathogen's lifecycle begins again.
I hypothesize that there is a
similar pathogen found in the feces of infected people that
causes people who are infected to fetishize shit - instead of
being naturally repulsed by it. In ancient Egypt, both cats &
scarabs were worshipped. This understanding may explain why.
I believe that this unrecognized pathogen is infecting society
at epidemic levels & explains WHY people lose all
semblance of common-sense & critical thinking in, what has
become, a growing societal interest in the "Joys of
several authors ASSert).
Considering that major health organizations such as the
CDC have identified
to be some +5000% better at spreading diseases than even OralSex,
- That statistic alone constitutes a basis to see the act
declared illegal in the name of public health as well as
creating the medical initiative to actively look for such a
pathogen! Do the
Most men keep the aspects of their best friendships extremely private:
I've had a
the opportunity to experience first hand what so many men won't
admit happens among themselves & other guys. Since
becoming sexually mature, I've realized that I bonded
emotionally with other guys & I enjoy the physical aspect of
close relationships. I'm attracted to an honest, masculine
personality. "Effeminate men" are a turn off -- no matter
how good they look (If I wanted a girlie, I'd date one).
Associating with athletes regularly, -I was always around "tough guys", & in
the mind of most of my peers, -- I was one as well. My
experiences with so-called "straight guys" (who turned out to be
"g0y") are fairly numerous, & started early on.
Unlike the 'gay culture' (portrayed in the media as all about "painted
nails" & the next piece of tail), -- my private, physical
relationships with my buds was never considered "casual"; --& the level
of friendship's bonds remains the deepest & most intimate even
till this day. I consider them
all members of my extended family. As a contributor
to the article on this site about "G0YDAR",
I can tell you that this is N0T about "seducing straight men".
It's about befriending another guy so deeply that he drops his
guard & lets you discover that he was g0y all along.
I'm amazed at the number of "gAy"
guys who will accuse the
G0YDAR essay of being a "manual to seduce straight men", --
and in the next breath they'll insist that sexual orientation is
"fixed". Yeah: They'll insist that you can't make a gay-guy - "straight"; -- while suggesting that the article on G0YDAR
helps make straight-guys - "gAy"!
What g0ys understand by instinct - is that we don't embrace the
stigmas surrounding what society says "gay" is; --Quite
the contrary. Most g0ys are in 'deep conservative cover' & many
are ironically, oblivious to the fact that there are so many
other men like them on the planet. It can be a painful
existence feeling isolated - believing that you have
nobody on earth to talk to about how "you" feel.
0ur's is the group that
shows how to find. Kinsey hit on the 'g0y' phenomenon when
he compiled his statistics in the 1940's. When you
read the statistics about men who have had at least one sensual
encounter with another guy ... well, that's the mere boundary of
G0Y (& it substantially exceeds 50%)! It's a
complex psychology, but so many g0ys are afraid of the 'gAy
label" that they feign to be "totally-straight" -- that is until they
meet another guy who overwhelms their feelings. Such guys
are simply g0y; -- & until this movement - many simply haven't
had a term or a group philosophy they could identify with (the
majority of so-called
'bi-sexual' men are indeed, g0y -
because the truth is:
Most men are, indeed, amBisexual
to some degree). And I want to drive that point
home by adding that ALL of the men I've
ever had a close physical relationship with are considered
"straight" by everyone who casually knows them. It is my
experience and firm belief that the number of men who have
physical relationships with other men do so in an environment
complete privacy and far outnumber men who call themselves
Most men are, indeed, amBisexual to some degree.
Get that FACT between your ears. Society constantly tells
a LIE saying: "Most people are straight and a few have same-sex
attractions."; - But G0YS say: "Most men are amBIsexual to some
degree and therefore G0YS outnumber 'gays' 5:1". Once you
realize this fact, -it'll change your entire view of male
is not a simple thing.
It's multi dimensional. Graphed
now exist to graph an analog of the frenzied electrical
connections in the brain),
ATTRACTORS look like the image to the right. The complexity
is almost infinite, however, brain structures create similar
attractors -virtual circuits -- although no two are identical &
they can slightly change form over time as nature & nurture
influence them. Within the brain, this virtual object is
the electrical storm-front that triggers a flurry of action,
responses & reactions. It even spawns more attractors that
cause more activity! Although this type of abstract
analogy may be beyond the intuition of most readers, - let it
suffice to say that actual mathematical models now exist to
explain everything from variances in sexual attraction -- to why
some people hate broccoli while others like it.
-- is an attractor set - that many, many men understand
intuitively without knowing the first thing about Kinsey, or
chaos mathematics. This website examines the 'shape' of
being "g0y". If you don't understand, -- ok.
Countless men already experience this kind of attraction, & the
current social labels & group paradigms are ill-fitting to them.
We can help them to understand.
We are the G0YS!
"The fact remained that
despite the media's reporting of gay-pride & related events,
-- despite all the images & the strange ways that same
sex relationships were painted by the press: I never saw a
single broadcast or read a single article in any paper that
came close to describing the tenderness, intimacy & mutual
respect of the relationships I'd been having with other g0ys
on & off throughout my lifetime. For the most part,
the mass media -- traditional & so-called 'gay', -
completely misrepresent the reality of most intimate
male/male relationships. Society as a whole has
lies so completely that in order to begin to understand the
truth, you must first
overcome a massive paradigm of deceit
projected from nearly every
G0Y: Our natural
condition. There are N0 written rules:
Just Reasons, Revelations & Raw Testosterone!
One particularly odd phenomenon
I have observed since g0ys became a global term - is that many
people (usually "GAYS") seem preoccupied with what they call the
"Rules of G0YDOM" - as if g0ys has a set of bylaws.
Apparently, many "gay" men can't imagine that there are men who find
the notion of
to be completely antagonistic to masculine
behavior. Apparently, many "gay" men can't imagine that
there are men who find the notion of gender-bending to be repugnant
to their basic sense of being a man. Apparently, many "gay" men can't imagine that
there are many men who find the notion of casually spreading STDs/STIs to
be the hallmark of a morally-bankrupt character. Those "gay"
men must believe that men who don't do those "stereotypical gay" things only abstain
because they are following some set of rigid "G0Y rules". Such
"gay" men simply can't fathom the notion that most men simply don't
want to jump into the
flood of abuse that the "gay" male community paints itself (say
"paints itself") as being the embodiment of.
"G0YS" as described in this website (& this website is the very
origin of the term "G0YS") - are simply men (in the
statistical male-majority) who share a common set
of typical characteristics. You either share these ethical
values or you do
not. Those who share these views - we refer to as G0YS. No "Rules";
- But simply the innate reality of being G0Y. Remember that simple
fact. And, whenever you read an article, essay or see broadcasting
in which a series of "Rules for being a G0Y" are presented; --
you'll know you're seeing something authored by someone who doesn't
understand even the 1st principle of being one of the G0YS (nor
probably what it is like to identify as a man)!
The Greeks already
guys discover how awesome (& yet normal) it is to work off
sexual-tension with a best bud; - women lose the ability to
manipulate them via their LIBIDO. That's freedom!
was a religion given standing by the
state that conspired with the state to murder Yeshua Ben Yoseph
"Wow! Parts of this site look/feel retro!", you say? Yeah. We've
been around for a while, but if we spread out the blogs, essays,
posts & other content in order to feel more "modern" - the site
would span so many pages that your mouse might break clicking into
them all! So enjoy the "blog'est nostalgia" & be thankful that the
content is aggregated so densely. While the sure-secret to success
has never been found; - the surefire way to failure is to try to
"Generally, when you hear the terms 'Gay', 'Straight', "Bi", or
'Lifestyle' being used; --You're usually listening to subjective
This website contains lots of citations, statistics, stories,
anecdotes. Statistics can change over time. Some of the accounts are
actual; -Some are fictional.
I leave the due diligence to the reader to judge what is fact & what
is fiction and what statistics may need a fresh look.
Why use fiction to make a point? Because a wise person once
observed: "Artists use lies to tell the truth, but evil men use lies
to cover up the truth."
Think & Judge for Yourself. Govern Yourself accordingly.