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Since beginning to observe the dynamics of what makes a relationship work and what works in the long-term vs. the short; --The one rock-solid observation I've made is the same one that writers have been noting since writing began: The external tells you little about what lies beneath. Now, this isn't an essay that will attempt to get you to disregard the external-appearances of yourself or others. What it will be an attempt to do is (3) fold:
The stud-image/s shown above are actually a computer model cast out of light in 3D - with absolutely nothing beneath the skin in reality. And yet the brain of the beholder tries to ascertain what sort of man the machine really is. Hmmmm. Trust me: It's the stuff sociopath's are made of. You might encounter "him" in cyberspace in some "game" as "he" comes across the grid with his weapon pointed at your avatar. But despite the appearance: He has no appreciation of anything; -And the world he exists in consists of only rules for finding the target and a drive to engage it. It can't be reasoned with. It can't be bargained with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse or pain. And it absolutely will not stop; -until you're dead. I think that it's the same mindset behind the scripts of most "gay-porn"! Laugh, --but consider the deeper issues. Isn't that the reality behind the mindset of the man who lives for his own pleasure at the expense of others? He may appear stunning on the outside for a while -but a man who thinks only of himself will share - only when it benefits him equally or the more. Such a man may be the carrier of any number of diseases that he caught unaware from other such men and instead of a gun, -his loaded penis is just as perilous; -And instead of approaching with a battle cry; --he gains entrance with a mouth offering flattery & suggested-vulgarity. He's the very form that Satan himself prefers to use, abuse & lay waste to. It's just an animal-skin. What sort of creature lies just beneath it - takes discovery. There is an old proverb that is translated: "Some men's sins are obvious; -While others trail behind.". It is those that "trail behind" that are often the most insidious because the damage they cause is often concealed for some time until afterward. Such is the practice of AnalSex. Some +5000% more perilous than any other form of sexual contact, --those who catch STD's as a result of it are often unaware that they've been infected or even "killed" until months or years pass! And being unaware, --they become a party to continuing the cycle of spreading STD's until the past catches up. And then it's too late. Damage done.
Of course, -once a man discovers he has contracted a disease that is currently difficult to treat or impossible to cure, --the actual nature of the man beneath the skin will become known by the course of actions he chooses that affect other people. And there is no shortage of HIV+ "GAY" men who haven't altered their behavior a bit since discovering that they're +POS. Such are self-absorbed, callous & indifferent. A Hebrew Rabbi described such a person as: "Their lives are filled with all kinds of sexual perversions, wickedness, and greed. They are mean. They are filled with envy, callously-disregarding-life, argumentative, deceitful, and vicious. They are gossips, slanderers, (haters of authority) - hating God too; -And haughty, arrogant, and boastful. They think up new ways to cruelly use others for their own ends. They disregard their parents wisdom, ignore common-sense, break covenants, and don't care to show love to their own families nor mercy to others. Although they know it's a righteous judgment that -those who do such things deserve to die, -they not only do these things but also approve of others who do them!"
The G0Y predisposition is very different. And notice that I say "PREDISPOSITION". It's the PREDISPOSITION of G0YS to be Alpha Males in the regard that we who do not tolerate SH1T on ourselves, our buddies nor our beds. The G0Y predisposition is toward RATIONALITY & RESPECT; --So G0YS do not try to twist what is vulgar into some sort of "fetish" for the sake of having a faux self-esteem. If you're playing in SH!T and ripping out your collective AssHoles while spreading diseases explosively --then any "pride" you may have is grossly misplaced & undeserved. The term "FAGGOT" is quite literally, reserved for such -as a warning to others. As soon as I was old enough to enjoy the
naked-aesthetics & company of a hott buddy all night, --the mindset that
accompanied the closeness & affection was one of extreme respect &
appreciation. Like
a lot of guys, I discovered "sex" early into my teens. I came
from a conservative household where there was NO pornography in the house -so my
realization of what was going on between myself & a few good friends was a
realization arrived at in the aftermath of watching a buddy's soapy erection in
the hot-tub seize his complete attention & rob his composure as his
ejaculation reflex forced a gusher of creamy man-sauce from his lathery dick
head into the air and all over my gently gripping hand upon succumbing to
gravity.
The experience motivated him to gently grasp my dick &
it took about 3 seconds to bring about the same experience from my personal
perspective. At first, it simply didn't dawn on me that it was
"sexual". I only knew that the less clothing my buddy was
wearing & the more of his naked skin I got to feel provided some sort of
intense motivation to extend the time & intensity of the experience.
He obviously was feeling the same way. And what I felt was that what
we shared as friends was completely private & was absolutely
priceless. But about my very 1st bedable-buddy: As time would eventually tell; --he liked both sexes -while I only loved guys. He has played the "straight" card -even into the present, --but is actually very "G0Y" in the way he interacts with a guy on an intimate level. He'd tell you that the "GAY movement" has damaged what best friendships can naturally become because "GAY" tries to reframe the content of best-friendships in a context that most men do not relate to -often quite the opposite. Fully appreciating a buddy from balls to brows has nothing to do with gender-bending nor AnalSex; --And even the mere hint of mixing the concepts is grossly offensive & disrespectful to masculinity. And that is the gut-feeling of most men -because it's simply true. And in teenage guys -where social status & the perception of their image is 2nd-to-none; --The notion of being grouped with a bunch of arse-pounding girly-guys (image below) is on par with cutting your social-balls off. Some may say that I'm merely creating a straw-man out of a stereotype, --but look for yourselves & you'll see that the so-called "stereotypes of gaydom" are actively & loudly promoted by the "gay-community" itself. If you don't want people to associate your group with x-dressers, gender-benders & arse-fukkerz, -then perhaps your membership should stop promoting those very things first. Unless, of course, the stereotypes are the TRUTH. And if they are the TRUTH, -then you can't complain about the debasing use of distorted stereotypes. In metaphorical terms, I tell a lot of the gAys who criticize g0ys: "Quit trying to sell everyone on how good your pig sings by bashing his critics as being "biased & intolerant". Your pig (like most) has repeatedly earned his tuneless-reputation, and men of common-sense grow tired of your appeals to ignore their own ears."
The bottom line ... is simply recognizing the contrasts between a group of men who love men & reject acts that put men in peril, -vs. the group of men who choose to proxy the arse as if it's a vagina ("mangina") & as a result, --have the highest levels of sexually transmitted infections of ANY demographic and the most medical-need for arse-surgery to repair trauma resulting from such UNnatural act/s. Moral behavior is NOT an abstract principle. It can be clearly gauged by the outcome of certain actions and groups can be likewise labeled - based on the outcomes of actions that they promote. It really is that simple to discern. Sociopaths don't change; -- It's beyond their nature: Sex by itself is about pleasure - connected to a biological "reset" mechanism that takes the "edge off" for a while. Since pleasure is a factor - the same dynamics can & do occur that are feelings connected to drug use and MISUSE. Sex can be associated with feelings of euphoria & "power". Because of these well established facts - g0ys believe that sex for the sake of itself moves in one direction only: ABUSIVE. The "sexual revolution" that characterized the 60's & 70's had several faces. Some of those faces were masks that concealed an old form of evil - now ready to go on a rampage among the indiscriminate. It was UNRESTRAINED LASCIVIOUSNESS: LUST. Let's not be melodramatic. This has been around since the dawn of human history in many forms. Sex, however, like drug use, -provides a platform for this form of excess to root itself deeply. It literally says: "Hurray for me as I screw you"! When inhibitions are totally removed - what manifests itself is every form of BDSM you can & can't visualize. It's appetite has no limits. And, those who are snared by the practices it spawns are ALL hallmarked by a single characteristic: The pursuit of pleasure outweighs the value they place on the humanity of those around them -& even their own well-being! This is the mindset of the sociopath. It is, quite literally, without conscience. The "gay" revolution WAS and still IS punctuated by sociopath commentary. At the pinnacle of the "gay" message is the lie - that men who love men, buttphuck as the predominant expression of M2M intimacy. To the sociopath - the one who esteems his own pleasure above all else, - that message needs no discerning voice. Because sociopaths don't care about respecting the humanity of others. However, anyone who looks at the statistics surrounding related health issues soon discovers the acts of the sociopath are not the ideas nor inclinations of the vast majority of the public. However, as any study of mental dysfunction will reveal: the sociopath is an expert manipulator and skilled liar. The sociopath has an insatiable appetite, - and you are on the menu. Unleashed from the prison of moral compasses - the sociopath has flourished in the pornography business & at the art of human exploitation. The goal of the sociopath is to get his way -& this is accomplished by sending a continual message that morality is an abstraction -so he insists that "His way is right & so is your's; - Pay no attention to who gets hurt"! And because the sociopath knows no restraint - his menu extends all the way to children - cutting right thru the teenager as well. Sociopaths long to make complicit drones. Those who know no moral restraint seek satiation by the same. They thrive best in situations that foster INequality: BDSM. Dom/Sub. Top/Bottom. Prostitute/Jon. Clergy/Laity. "Love is the mortal enemy of the sociopath and empathy is the window love
views the world thru."
And the result? For the 1st time since the "Sexual Revolution", men who
experience Same Gender Attractions (SGA) have a giant option called "g0y" set
before them! G0YS are the "moral high-road" for both health & perception
reasons. We provide the context in which men can reframe their entire
thought process regarding masculinity without needing to accept the
gender-confounding lies of the sociopathic "gay male community's"
self-anointed spokespeople.
So, to the teenage guy who is beginning to realize that he has feelings for his buddies; -- the FACT is that a substantial number of them probably feel the same things back at ya! They're not afraid of loving their buddies... They're afraid of being associated with a bunch of gAys who have embraced the faux-paas of a woman by adopting an active or passive interest in analsex as a "defining gay act". Specifically denounce the buttphuckers loudly; -- & your buddies will relax into your gentleness when directed toward them. Again, to the teenage guy who is beginning to realize that he has feelings for his buddies: Get some insight. Gain some understanding. Grow your confidence - knowing that you are in the MAJORITY. Gather into your personal group of friends those guys, - eh, g0ys - who are willing to embrace the truth. Read the g0ys website. This website is a great link to send to them from a "private" e-mail address you establish -not in your name. To the older guy who has been dealing with these feelings for a bit longer: Read the g0ys website. Process those ideas that resonate the best with you. The epiphany is an extreme one. Undoing years of self-loathing & undeserved abuse, judgmentally & often religious persecution as g0ys lifts a weight from the inner being that - even many words can hardly describe. CERTAINTY of the WHY gives MORAL CLARITY & SELF CONFIDENCE. We hope to empower you. Join us. It doesn't matter how well manicured the outside is. Because if the inside of the man resembles a demonized pig's mentality, the actions will likewise follow; --Making the beautiful, hideous!
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